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06.02.08, 19:19 PM New York City
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i am seeing someone who is so hot and cold. one day he loves me all day every day, but then the next day he is overwhelmed with work and doesn't really want to talk to me. its a pretty annoying roller coaster. what do i do? anyone have a dh like this? we have been togther a couple of months. i guess it is who he is [ Reply | Watch | Flag ]
New York City 06.02.08, 07:19 PM Flag
 

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I'd say try and distance - would only be worse if married. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.02.08, 07:20 PM Flag
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distance as in break up [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.02.08, 07:23 PM Flag
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yeah, start pulling away. he is not a keeper. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.02.08, 07:24 PM Flag
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End this relationship. Sounds like a constant drain on your energy. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.02.08, 07:22 PM Flag
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lose him. you deserve way more. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.02.08, 07:25 PM Flag
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thank you. its weird because he wants a full relationship but on his time [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.02.08, 07:27 PM Flag
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no way. sounds withholding in general--right now it's with time. how will he continue to limit intimacy? most important thing for me in a relationship is trusting that the person is there constantly--doesn't mean they won't screw up--but that is their general goal as a partner. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.02.08, 07:30 PM Flag
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what do i do now? interesting you mentioned limiting intimacy. he has BIG issues with intimacy. big [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.02.08, 07:31 PM Flag
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break it off. make way for the next great one to come along when you least expect it. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.02.08, 07:36 PM Flag
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