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06.02.08, 18:50 PM General Topics
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am I being oversensitive? after 2nd m/c, mil keeps saying to me and dh "well, in my day I wouldn't even have known I was pregnant!" I had losses at 10 wks and 7 wks fwiw (and dh is one who keeps telling her i'm pregnant - i'd rather we keep it to ourselves). [ Reply | Watch | Flag ]
General Topics 06.02.08, 06:50 PM Flag
 

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i'm sure she thinks she's being helpful, but she is being very insensitive. i'm very sorry for your losses. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.02.08, 06:51 PM Flag
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sorry for your losses. tell dh to stfu. seriously [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.02.08, 06:51 PM Flag
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it's a generational thing. My mil was the "suck it up" type. There's no pay back for sharing tell dh to zip it up next time gl [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.02.08, 06:52 PM Flag
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ita - my friend went thru this with her mom - she said horrible things - they just dont think [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.02.08, 07:00 PM Flag
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i'm sorry to hear about the m/c's. i don't think you are being overly sensitive. would dh agree not to tell mil about them? it sounds like it would be better not to talk about these issues with her [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.02.08, 06:53 PM Flag
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people say the dumbest things about miscarriages. i think partially they don't understand what it's like and partially they just need to say something. i recently miscarried and i don't like a lot of the things my mom has been saying. i know she means well. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.02.08, 06:57 PM Flag
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i'm so sorry -- i also had two losses and i heard the same thing from someone. but then again, there is a little bit of truth to it -- my ditzy mother didn't realize she was pregnant until she was almost 20 wks with my sister... (she was spotting and thought it was her AF) [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.02.08, 07:03 PM Flag
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