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06.02.08, 15:07 PM General Topics
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i am starting to wean, and my nanny is being very judgemental. comments like, formula is so bitter" and "american women don't nurse for very long" [ Reply | Watch | Flag ]
General Topics 06.02.08, 03:07 PM Flag
 

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fire her [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.02.08, 03:08 PM Flag
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ita! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.02.08, 03:10 PM Flag
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yep [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.02.08, 03:13 PM Flag
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seriously? i should fire her over this?? i like her otherwise [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.02.08, 03:16 PM Flag
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no, do not listen to ub [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.02.08, 03:16 PM Flag
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IF you do fire her, I'll taker her. I need a new one. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.02.08, 03:17 PM Flag
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she works for you. period. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.02.08, 03:17 PM Flag
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and has the right to her opinion. what do you, a robot? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.02.08, 03:18 PM Flag
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sure she has the right to her opinion. but she needs to exercise common decency about expressing it. being judgemental and critical to the boss--not very bright at all [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.02.08, 03:20 PM Flag
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I agree. I frequently thought my bosses were idiots, but I was generally smart enough and respectful enough not to offer my opinion until I had another job. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.02.08, 03:28 PM Flag
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See below, where OP admits to already feeling guilty. A nanny can take advantage of this. OP, don't feel guilty. I would look for another nanny. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.02.08, 03:29 PM Flag
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op: she knows how great i think she is with ds. i am so annoyed. and she is usually very reserved. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.02.08, 03:33 PM Flag
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can you tell that you say that you will be the one to make the decisions regarding your baby, not her [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.02.08, 03:11 PM Flag
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how old is dc? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.02.08, 03:16 PM Flag
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7 months. i'm a wohm and just switched to a job where it is a lot harder to go off and pump [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.02.08, 03:18 PM Flag
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american women dont nurse for 'very' long. it's true when compared to other cultures [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.02.08, 03:16 PM Flag
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we know that, genius. that's not the issue. np. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.02.08, 03:19 PM Flag
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op: i was wondering if anyone else had this situation and how they dealt. i already feel guilty about it and this isn't helping [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.02.08, 03:19 PM Flag
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you don't need to feel guilty. tell her to chill. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.02.08, 03:21 PM Flag
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i haven't been in this situation, but please don't feel guilty about it! you just do what you need to do and tell the nanny to please keep her opinions to herself [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.02.08, 03:22 PM Flag
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thanks. its been very hard with formula. he reacted horribly when we first tried at 4 months (vomitted, probably a milk allergy that he outgrew). then he refused soy. recently he's been taking blended bottles (no more vomiting) and today i asked her to give him one full formula bottle (i did this myself over the weekend) [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.02.08, 03:25 PM Flag
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tell her if it bothers her so much to go back to her damn country where women BF until the kids go through puberty [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.02.08, 03:49 PM Flag
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