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06.01.08, 17:13 PM General Topics
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I'm having an affair and falling in love. [ Reply | Watch | Flag ]
General Topics 06.01.08, 05:13 PM Flag
 

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Round of applause. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.01.08, 05:15 PM Flag
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lol [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.01.08, 05:25 PM Flag
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nah, you're bored. that's why you're on ub [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.01.08, 05:15 PM Flag
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Be careful you're treading on dangerous ground and oh by the way when I did that I was given the gift of herpes [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.01.08, 05:16 PM Flag
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What was the outcome with dh? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.01.08, 05:17 PM Flag
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I blamed him! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.01.08, 05:18 PM Flag
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you need therapy [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.01.08, 05:20 PM Flag
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holier than thou mom! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.01.08, 05:20 PM Flag
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only about affairs. I admit it. I'm sancti on that. I just don't think lying and cheating are ever a good policy. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.01.08, 05:21 PM Flag
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not they're not but sh**t happens! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.01.08, 05:21 PM Flag
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only if you let it. In this country there is a handy thing called divorce. Be honest and leave DH if it's so bad. Don't lie and cheat and put your DCs at risk. Just be a grown up [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.01.08, 05:23 PM Flag
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you are really boring, bye! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.01.08, 05:23 PM Flag
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LOL! I like boring. Drama is too damn much trouble [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.01.08, 05:24 PM Flag
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gross [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.01.08, 05:16 PM Flag
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yes, use protection [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.01.08, 05:17 PM Flag
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do a search for affair mom and see your future. Seriously. Don't do it [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.01.08, 05:16 PM Flag
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do you have DC's? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.01.08, 05:17 PM Flag
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yes - two [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.01.08, 05:18 PM Flag
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i feel sorry for you and them. if you dont want to be with DH step up and say so. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.01.08, 05:19 PM Flag
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Whats so bad about DH that you started the affair? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.01.08, 05:17 PM Flag
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It's almost too bad to explain. Literally checked out during a v. difficult pg that hospitalized me for 10 weeks. Absent during their first year - he is the quenessential frat boy that is out 3-4 nights a week in the bars. We haven't had sex in 2 years. It just awful. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.01.08, 05:20 PM Flag
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So what on earth are you still doing together?! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.01.08, 05:21 PM Flag
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Well, in addition to all that he essentially stopped working and got fired. He was a VP in the IT sector. As a result, we nearly went bankrupt. I am back to work and doing well financially but now he wants to be a musician. I don't want to support him financially. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.01.08, 05:23 PM Flag
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np: So get divorced and marry your affair. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.01.08, 05:21 PM Flag
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Yeah, it's that simple! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.01.08, 05:22 PM Flag
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np pretty much yes [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.01.08, 05:23 PM Flag
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Yeah, it actually is. It is painful and awful, but it's really simple when a marriage doesn't work and you are both miserable. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.01.08, 05:23 PM Flag
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Are you speaking from experience? if not, please stop. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.01.08, 05:24 PM Flag
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Yes, I am. And even if I hadn't been through it, people can give you advice. I'm guessing your DH isn't the only awful one in this relationship. You come here to start something, and then can't hack the blowback. Grow up. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.01.08, 05:26 PM Flag
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ITTTTTTA! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.01.08, 05:27 PM Flag
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I like it when holier than thou mommies get mad at strangers its funny! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.01.08, 05:27 PM Flag
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i dont know that its getting mad but more of jsut putting her in her place [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.01.08, 05:28 PM Flag
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yes, you really can put a stranger online in her place! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.01.08, 05:29 PM Flag
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So this was all to get a rise out of people? Fine. Better than it being your life. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.01.08, 05:28 PM Flag
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no I just can't stand when people are judgmental that all! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.01.08, 05:30 PM Flag
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np I think it is ok to judge bad behavior. I have no problem with that at all [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.01.08, 05:31 PM Flag
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And you are the judge of what's good or bad? All hail the Queen! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.01.08, 05:31 PM Flag
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Lying to your DH and jeopardizing your relationships with your kids are both bad things. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.01.08, 05:33 PM Flag
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And you, all mighty, know the details that led her to this behavior? You bore me too... Bye! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.01.08, 05:34 PM Flag
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Yeah, she just told us below. Her DH is an ass. Don't let the door hit you on the way out. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.01.08, 05:35 PM Flag
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well, if you are really happy great, but you should really get out of your marriage. even if DH is an ass its still better to leave him than to commit adultry. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.01.08, 05:23 PM Flag
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happy isn't everything. She is responsible for the well being of her 2 kids. That should count for something [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.01.08, 05:27 PM Flag
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guess what? he's cheating on you too! Talk to a lawyer and end this lousy relationship. Horrible modeling for children. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.01.08, 09:01 PM Flag
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Very common, very dumb. Don't tell anyone about it, no matter how tempted, and seek therapy ASAP. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.01.08, 05:21 PM Flag
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is the guy married or single? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.01.08, 05:23 PM Flag
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why an affair instead of a divorce ? with no sex for 2 years, do you think he's been cheating too ? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.01.08, 05:24 PM Flag
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good point [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.01.08, 05:25 PM Flag
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is the affair with someone you both know or anywhere within your circle of friendship ? aren't you afraid to be caught or seen or discovered ? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.01.08, 05:27 PM Flag
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I think you may be having an affair and falling in a big ass dark hole which will be hard to get out of... [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.01.08, 05:39 PM Flag
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also, you're a whore. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.01.08, 08:55 PM Flag
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spoken like a true madonna [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.01.08, 08:56 PM Flag
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