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06.01.08, 16:32 PM General Topics
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Whats the worst thing Dh has ever done to you? ME: My mom was in the hospital dying, litterally taking her last breaths, and he asked if he could go wtch the game in the room next door. [ Reply | Watch | Flag ]
General Topics 06.01.08, 04:32 PM Flag
 

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seriously ?! Is there even a response to that kind of question ? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.01.08, 04:33 PM Flag
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wow. i thought my dh was the worst. he went on a bus. trip to other coast while dd was in hosp. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.01.08, 04:34 PM Flag
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wow, that is pretty bad. was he having some sort of anxiety being so close to death, or was he just bored? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.01.08, 04:35 PM Flag
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OP: Nope. he is sports obsessed. at that time the game seemed more important to him i guess. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.01.08, 04:36 PM Flag
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that is just terrible. I'm sorry. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.01.08, 04:37 PM Flag
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thx, ive actually never told anyone else bc i didnt want my friends to judge him. hes a good guy but def has his faults. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.01.08, 04:37 PM Flag
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OP: We were in the hospial all day and it was a tough day but thats still no excuse. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.01.08, 04:39 PM Flag
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Did he apologize later? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.01.08, 05:02 PM Flag
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no, we just kind of let it go. He knew it was inappropriate. Has never even come close to doing something like that ever again [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.01.08, 05:04 PM Flag
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were you married at the time? This is what i would consider a deal-breaker. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.01.08, 04:38 PM Flag
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is he normally caring and attentive ? was this just a weird "hospitals and death freak me out" type of response ? how did you respond ? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.01.08, 04:41 PM Flag
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yes, he is normally a great guy. I honestly think he wanted to see the game and just asked. I told him if he didnt want to be there then he could leave and he felt bad and stayed in the room. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.01.08, 04:43 PM Flag
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I love my DH and while this isn't his "failing" I can imagine him just getting it wrong on a grand scale and not seeing how it was so awful. I also get not telling friends... Some things are better left away from girlfriends... [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.01.08, 04:47 PM Flag
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OP: Wow, thank you. Its so nice to get a genuine reply and not someone telling me i have a terrible marriage or something snarky. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.01.08, 05:01 PM Flag
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No... nobody knows why people are together and what works and how the good and bad pan out. Nobody could deal with me but my dh and vice versa, but I'm sure if people looked in, they'd have other opinions I'm not that interested in hearing. I get that about what you wrote... [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.01.08, 05:04 PM Flag
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i'm so sorry that he did that. it sounds like he simply did not have the capacity to deal with the situation - her death and your pain. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.01.08, 04:43 PM Flag
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