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06.01.08, 16:28 PM General Topics
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Imagine if you will: Husband's class reunion. You know a woman who was horrible to you years ago - horrible - will be there. Other than looking great and being happily married for 12 years to DH, what else can I do to make sure she feels *slightly* like my life is better than hers. I know it's shallow and tacky and lame. I know... I can't help it though. Words of wisdom ? [ Reply | Watch | Flag ]
General Topics 06.01.08, 04:28 PM Flag
 

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Looking great and having a good life is enough. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.01.08, 04:30 PM Flag
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mention your recent fabulous trips, your kids who slept through the night at 2 weeks old, and your dh's undying romanticism. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.01.08, 04:30 PM Flag
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Kill her with kindness. Your pleasant attitude will annoy her to shreds. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.01.08, 04:31 PM Flag
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I'm not mature enough for this one, although I wish I were... [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.01.08, 04:32 PM Flag
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then ask her loads of questions and one up her with all her replies. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.01.08, 04:33 PM Flag
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tell your dh that you need him to be particularly attentive and doting when in her presence. that's enough. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.01.08, 04:31 PM Flag
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good answer... [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.01.08, 04:32 PM Flag
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yep. that and looking great will do it. you could snub her too, but that may backfire. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.01.08, 04:33 PM Flag
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I agree, snubbing her shows that you care too much. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.01.08, 04:33 PM Flag
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I think you're right [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.01.08, 04:34 PM Flag
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what did she do to you? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.01.08, 04:33 PM Flag
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^^and I don't think it's lame, btw... totally understandable [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.01.08, 04:33 PM Flag
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yes, I really would love to know as well. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.01.08, 04:33 PM Flag
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ITA, also would want the same thing. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.01.08, 04:34 PM Flag
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as an insecure girl years ago (she's a bit older than me) she followed me around yelling at me, told women I was a whore, things like that... [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.01.08, 04:34 PM Flag
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small town girl just ridiculed by Manhattanite... [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.01.08, 04:35 PM Flag
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OMG! What a bitch! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.01.08, 04:37 PM Flag
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yes... a very big bitch with a very mean streak ! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.01.08, 04:42 PM Flag
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make sure you wear a hot outfit and tell her about all of the trips and houses you have (you can lie) [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.01.08, 04:43 PM Flag
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Outfit and shoes - check ! Sassy haircut - check. Confidence - still getting there... [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.01.08, 04:45 PM Flag
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Just really do not care what she thinks. That is the best revenge. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.01.08, 04:45 PM Flag
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just keep a smile on your face the whole time -- don't look annoyed ever.... [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.01.08, 04:52 PM Flag
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yes, i htink this is a good one... conveys confidence and that thoughts of her nastiness haven't crossed my mind at all... [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.01.08, 04:54 PM Flag
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if she has a smaller wedding ring or engagement ring, say "oh that's so cute" [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.01.08, 04:53 PM Flag
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good line, adding it in the list... you are all so good ! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.01.08, 04:55 PM Flag
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these are the petty things i dream about too. do you know what she's done with her life? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.01.08, 04:56 PM Flag
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a few kids, married well, I don't really know.it was a shock when i saw her name on the reunion list as dh has never mentioned her name and the school is small. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.01.08, 04:58 PM Flag
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be REALLY nice to her. that will annoy the crap out of her. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.01.08, 04:59 PM Flag
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you know how you think of clever retors after the moment has past ? I want to go ready with cleverness... brimming with cleverness... clever just spilling out all over ! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.01.08, 05:03 PM Flag
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