UrbanBaby

06.01.08, 14:58 PM New York City
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So annoyed. DH and I are separated and it's been my weekend w/ the kids. I made a point of asking him at mediation last week to check in with the kids and/or be reasonably available should something happen w/ them. (Kids are 4 and 1.) 4 yo left 2 messages for him yesterday asking him to call her and we have heard nothing from him. His cell is turned off and he's not answering emails. I thought reconciliation was a possibility, but now I just think I should seriously get rid of him. Just venting, thanks. [ Reply | Watch | Flag ]
New York City 06.01.08, 02:58 PM Flag

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Mabe he';s away [ Reply | More

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General Topics 06.01.08, 03:08 PM Flag

If he's away, it would only be in DC and he would definitely have cell and email access. Truthfully, I'm a little annoyed that he hasn't responded to my one email about some child custody stuff, but I'm really pissed that he hasn't returned DD's call. This is hard enough for her w/o her being ignored by her father. [ Reply | More

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General Topics 06.01.08, 03:13 PM Flag

np: when is she scheduled to see him again? can the child custody questions wait until tomorrow? [ Reply | More

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General Topics 06.01.08, 03:14 PM Flag

She's scheduled to see him again tomorrow and, yes, the questions can wait until tomorrow. I guess I'm just frustrated b/c we had some really good days together recently and I thought we might have been turning a corner. We separated b/c he just doesn't want to be in a relationship, but lately he seemed to be into it. Now, after a weekend like this where he is completely MIA and doesn't even check in to see if the kids are okay (he lives in the building next door to ours, so it's not like he's even very far away), it makes me think those "good" days didn't really mean anything. [ Reply | More

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General Topics 06.01.08, 03:16 PM Flag

i'm sure they meant something, maybe just not enough. [ Reply | More

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General Topics 06.01.08, 03:19 PM Flag

I guess not. Oh well. [ Reply | More

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General Topics 06.01.08, 03:20 PM Flag

It seems pretty clear that he's still not into a relationship. Let him go and free yourself to find someone better for you. [ Reply | More

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General Topics 06.01.08, 03:22 PM Flag