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06.01.08, 06:22 AM General Topics
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any husbands on? [ Reply | Watch | Flag ]
General Topics 06.01.08, 06:22 AM Flag
 

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My DH is lying next to me, sometimes reading along. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.01.08, 06:23 AM Flag
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how forgiving could he be of an affair that he found out about long after it ended. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.01.08, 06:25 AM Flag
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^^ and you have kids [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.01.08, 06:26 AM Flag
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Having kids always changes things. In the "most likely end our marriage" spectrum, the kids would probably be the only reason we would give it another try. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.01.08, 06:29 AM Flag
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Well, we have an agreement that the only way the other partner would find out about the affair is if the cheater wanted them to - and it would most likely mean the end of our marriage. He thinks that the cheater makes it all about him/her and that they usually "let" the other person find out to get attention. He says he doesn't believe in accidents, and being careless means you don't give a shit about the other person finding out. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.01.08, 06:28 AM Flag
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np: so you and dh cheat on each other, is what you're saying? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.01.08, 06:29 AM Flag
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No, we don't. And I think the parameters of how we think about this pretty much precludes anything other than a one-night stand. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.01.08, 06:30 AM Flag
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no. we were in a lull in our marriage a while ago and I was working with someone that I ended up getting mixed up with for a few months. I ended it, and we have since had another child and I never looked back. He found an old text message that I didn't even know I had on an old phone. I confessed and now I'm not sure what's going to happen. He says he needs time, which I understand. I would never do what I did again. I realized I was looking in the wrong place for what I was lacking at home at the time. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.01.08, 06:31 AM Flag
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did you have sex with the other person? were you in love? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.01.08, 06:33 AM Flag
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I wasn't in love. I just wanted to feel loved. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.01.08, 06:34 AM Flag
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thanks. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.01.08, 06:29 AM Flag
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hopeful dad here: I agree with the "only kids would save the marriage". If we had kids, then I'd stick around. If we didn't have kids, I'd end our relationship. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.01.08, 06:39 AM Flag
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OR: Right. I'd do most anything for my kids, including trying to forgive a big asshole. But even then, if it had been a longterm affair with evidence of a real relationship between the, it would be tough even with the kids. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.01.08, 06:50 AM Flag
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My Dh is right here. He says he would not forgive an affair, even if long ago. His x-gf of 10 years had an affair and he found out after, still has not forgiven and it's about 8 years ago. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.01.08, 06:32 AM Flag
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