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05.30.08, 19:21 PM General Topics
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What would you do/think if your DD showed up on a Girls Gone Wild video? It seems like a lot of young women today think they're powerful and free but exposing their breasts. Not me.. but I'm not young, either... (and I don't have perky breasts) [ Reply | Watch | Flag ]
General Topics 05.30.08, 07:21 PM Flag
 

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Depends on her age but honestly, I'd call a lawyer. Was she drunk when she did this? Did she sign a waiver? How did they legally film her and then sell this video and profit from it? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.30.08, 07:22 PM Flag
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What if she was somewhat drunk (she'd have to be) and of legal age (19)? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.30.08, 07:24 PM Flag
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OP- Well, my point is that if she's drunk, how can she make a legal decision? Isn't that some sort of impairment or even duress? So it should be invalid. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.30.08, 07:26 PM Flag
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so are we not responsible for our actions when we're drunk? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.30.08, 07:28 PM Flag
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OP - that's not my point. I know that certain legal contracts aren't binding, if one party is drunk when he signs it. Especially if the other person took advantage of them. Obviously a drunk driver is responsible for driving drunk, but contracts are different in our society. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.30.08, 07:29 PM Flag
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np: Really? What about your daughter thinking she should do this? Wouldn't you be upset at her lack of judgment? I might think my daughter had a serious personality issue that should be addressed with a therapist. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.30.08, 07:24 PM Flag
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General Topics 05.30.08, 07:25 PM Flag
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Yes -- it would scare me that she would even be tempted to do that. Not even in my most wasted days of college would I ever do that... [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.30.08, 07:26 PM Flag
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OR - I would think she just did an incredibly stupid thing and didn't consider the consequences. And that she's very insecure and immature, if she feels that she has to appear desirable to others, to actually feel good about herself. And to allow men to photograph her this way and basically use it. Sort of like a very mild form of porn. But not the same as a serious personality issue. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.30.08, 07:28 PM Flag
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Well, I would be horrified to ever have my child be in porn. But I think the issues are similar - in fact, that she did this for free and not for money would freak me out in a different way. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.30.08, 07:29 PM Flag
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OR - yes, I agree with you. The issue isn't money but that she bared herself to a random guy with a camera, because she felt a desperate need to appear "sexy". To a random guy. Or if she knew about the video, to a bunch of strange guys later on. That's the real issue, her lack of self-esteem. And if her friend bared herself and your dd then followed suit, she succumbed to peer pressure too, which also indicates insecurity. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.30.08, 07:33 PM Flag
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read female chauvanist pigs [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.30.08, 07:24 PM Flag
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I would freak out and think I had done a horrible job of parenting my DD, for her to think this type of behavior is appropriate [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.30.08, 07:27 PM Flag
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