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05.30.08, 12:28 PM New York City
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Would you rather have a husband who was cuddly and sweet, very involved in your DC's lives, and always around, or a husband who was hot, made tons of money, adores the kids but not around as much? like, travels? [ Reply | Watch | Flag ]
New York City 05.30.08, 12:28 PM Flag
 

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Choice A, of course. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.30.08, 12:29 PM Flag
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I guess I am lucky because I have the hybrid version with the best qualities of each. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.30.08, 12:30 PM Flag
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my dh is hot, very involved, and always around. he makes very good money, as do i. he's not cuddly and only sometimes sweet. so a mix, i guess. i'll keep him. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.30.08, 12:34 PM Flag
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Why are these mutually exclusive descriptions? You can have a cuddly & sweet dh who isn't around, or a hot dh, who makes money who is always around [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.30.08, 12:30 PM Flag
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does either cook or clean? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.30.08, 12:30 PM Flag
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LOL [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.30.08, 12:32 PM Flag
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I'm serious! i sort of have B, i think i'd prefer A, but i realize in my head he is making dinner and tidying up. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.30.08, 12:34 PM Flag
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LOL! He is still a man so my guess is no [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.30.08, 12:34 PM Flag
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you know, i'll take b. i love my dh, but i also like having my own life and don't need him around ALL the time - just as he needs his own life and to go out with his friends outside of his job which is time consuming. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.30.08, 12:32 PM Flag
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i have B but we travel with him. when we are at home, he is very involved. when we travel on biz, he is primarily focused on that and dc and i make do with each other. i think it's a great set up for us. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.30.08, 12:32 PM Flag
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does one of them have a dad who owns a liquor store? Is this a trick question? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.30.08, 12:35 PM Flag
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LMAO! You I like! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.30.08, 12:37 PM Flag
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I have an A who makes lots of money. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.30.08, 12:37 PM Flag
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ditto [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.30.08, 12:57 PM Flag
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tritto [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.30.08, 02:34 PM Flag
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I'm a. and I cook but I still leave my underwear on the bathroom floor. (I know, I know. I try and I try. I really do.) What is great is dw works part time nights so we have some alone time too... [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.30.08, 12:38 PM Flag
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YOU have alone time, when does she get some? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.30.08, 12:45 PM Flag
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When #1 is in school and #2 is in a class, etc. I also usually take them for part of Sat or Sun so she can do stuff. (When I am home and she is at work I am parenting, too.) I would actually say, she has more "by her self time" than I. Granted, they are asleep for a good bit of my "nights" but that is hardly time I can just do what I want. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.30.08, 12:52 PM Flag
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When #2 is in a class I am guessing she is with him/her. Your kids are probably asleep by 7:30 leaving you plenty of time (thats my schedule too so I know I have plenty of me time then too). Just making the point that maybe things aren't as equal as they seem. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.30.08, 12:56 PM Flag
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I'll agree our times are different but she could have as much "alone time" as I have if she got up with me and #1 in the am. But it is not a contest. We have a really unique situation and it works really well for us. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.30.08, 02:19 PM Flag
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what's considered "tons of money"? i think a lot of y'all are a bunch of fakers. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.30.08, 12:42 PM Flag
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This EXACT same post was up about a week ago. What's going on? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.30.08, 12:43 PM Flag
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replies and all? b/c i've replied twice (well, now 3 times) and i wasn't even on ub 2 weeks ago. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.30.08, 12:45 PM Flag
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I would want a husband who was hot and made an average high salary (low 100Ks) and got home by 8 pm every night unless he is out with the boys. I would permit him to go on guy trips if he wanted and I would have sex with him on call 24/7 if he was hot. And hot to me is like an 8.5 on a 10.0 scale. I also would not care if he want to strip clubs. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.30.08, 12:51 PM Flag
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since when is 100k a high salary around here? dh earns 100k, which I feel very fortunate for, but around here everyone always tells me it's low. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.30.08, 02:24 PM Flag
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it cuddly code for fat? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.30.08, 12:52 PM Flag
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totally [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.30.08, 12:53 PM Flag
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mine is a combination of a A and B. He is hot, cuddly and sweet(most of the time), very involved, and always around. He doesn't make a lot of money- but adores the kids. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.30.08, 02:21 PM Flag
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