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05.30.08, 09:03 AM New York City
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I have been separated from DH for about 3 months. Reconciliation is a possibility, but I think odds are better that we'll actually divorce. We're moving forward with a mediator, etc. Lately I've been in touch w/ an ex-bf. Do you think it's cheating if I went on a date with him (or even more)? Technically, I'm still married. I'm on the fence about it, and was curious what others thought. Thanks! [ Reply | Watch | Flag ]
New York City 05.30.08, 09:03 AM Flag
 

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I think if you are still trying to reconcile, you should focus on that. If you have given up and want a divorce, then go ahead and see exBF. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.30.08, 09:04 AM Flag
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what did you and dh decide on when you separated? Did you say you both could date? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.30.08, 09:04 AM Flag
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DH wouldn't really talk much about it, but I think we agreed not to date. If I decided to move forward with ex-bf, I probably would talk to DH and tell him that I think we should be allowed to see other people. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.30.08, 09:06 AM Flag
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imo if you are thinking of recociling I would start dating at this time [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.30.08, 09:16 AM Flag
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I assume you meant "not start dating" (and ITA) [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.30.08, 09:18 AM Flag
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LOl yes not start dating. Thx for picking that up [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.30.08, 09:20 AM Flag
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I think you should decide which way you want to go with DH. It will be a lot harder to reconcile if you go further with ex bf. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.30.08, 09:08 AM Flag
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don't muddy the waters. it's not fair to your dh, it's not fair to the guy you'd see, and it's really stupid to confuse yourself like that. just my opinion. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.30.08, 09:08 AM Flag
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ITA. It'll just confuse the situation. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.30.08, 09:18 AM Flag
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you might weaken your legal position if you start dating while you're still legally married and contemplating reconciliation. Talk to a lawyer. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.30.08, 09:18 AM Flag
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op: I guess it's unanimous -- thanks all. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.30.08, 09:19 AM Flag
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