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05.30.08, 07:41 AM General Topics
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frustrated dh here w/pointed question for insecure moms: what does your dh do to make you feel sexy/desired, and does it work? [ Reply | Watch | Flag ]
General Topics 05.30.08, 07:41 AM Flag
 

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Well, I'm not insecure anymore. DH just always tells me how great I look and is all over me, not just in bed but just touchy-feely in general. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.30.08, 07:43 AM Flag
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(op) I'm exactly the same way - and I'm totally sincere, too - but dw is still kind of a shrinking violet... [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.30.08, 07:45 AM Flag
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Can you ask her what she'd LIKE you to do? Do you think she could articulate what the issue is? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.30.08, 07:47 AM Flag
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no - I've been down this road with her before. She looks fantastic but admittedly her stomach and boobs aren't what they used to be after db #2. Not terrible, but not what they were before dbs. She won't undress with the light on and sometimes gets self-conscious when I look at her during sex. I can't keep my hands off her after 15 years together and she gets stares on the street from other men, but none of that seems to matter to her. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.30.08, 07:51 AM Flag
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Maybe it's time for a therapist? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.30.08, 07:52 AM Flag
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You said DH is all over you/tells you you look great - do YOU think you look great? The problem is in her head and I'm trying to get her to see herself the way I (and most people) see her. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.30.08, 07:54 AM Flag
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I don't think I look great actually. But I'm aware that I look pretty good for being 40 and having two kids, and I know very well that hiding from DH will ruin our marriage. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.30.08, 07:55 AM Flag
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he doesn't really do anything special but I love him anyway. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.30.08, 07:45 AM Flag
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tell me I look great, make me feel irresistible [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.30.08, 07:53 AM Flag
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