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05.29.08, 07:27 AM General Topics
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Mom who's period is now 1wk late, dh and i where talking yesterday and he told me he already researched info on alternatives ouch ouch, i know we have 2dcs already and can't afford more but still...i haven't even gotten a positive test or seen a dr yet...ahh this is so hard [ Reply | Watch | Flag ]
General Topics 05.29.08, 07:27 AM Flag
 

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you're right, ouch [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.29.08, 07:29 AM Flag
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sorry but it's your body. I'm pg with #3 and we really can't afford it but no way in hell would I let my dh tell me about alternatives. If you wanted him to look into it fine but don't feel pressured to do what you don't want. BTW we didn't want a 3rd..but now very happy. My grandmother used to say, where you can feed 4 you can feed 5 [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.29.08, 07:30 AM Flag
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he's not telling me what to do, at least yet,but i know he definitley doesn't want this db(if i'm even pg), i think the timing is so bad but the tought of living a life of guilt and remorse is killing me [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.29.08, 07:32 AM Flag
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I'm sorry that you are stressed already and you aren't sure if you are pg. I sure hope if it turns out you are pg, you and your dh could really talk it out and he can be sensitive to you. You are the one that would be doing something..so it's harder for a woman to do something about it [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.29.08, 07:34 AM Flag
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op, i so wish i wasn't pg and dh is the only one working right now since i'm a sahm with db #2 so in a way he has to support us [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.29.08, 07:35 AM Flag
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I'm right there with you. I stay at home with 2 kids and pg with #3. That's why #3 was never in our plan. The day I told dh I was pg (I was so nervous) he said to me what do you want to do. I told him I could never get rid of a dc and he said to me then we will make it work. I hope it all works out for you. Did you test yet? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.29.08, 07:36 AM Flag
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i tested last sunday with a negative result, now i was going to wait 2wks from the day we had sex last, bad idea? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.29.08, 07:39 AM Flag
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when was your period due? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.29.08, 07:46 AM Flag
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last thursday and it was on a 28day cycle since January when i got my pp period [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.29.08, 07:47 AM Flag
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you are a week late. Test again and if neg. then you are fine. I'm 40 and in the past 2 yrs when my period is changing cycles it comes a week late. GL [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.29.08, 07:48 AM Flag
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thx [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.29.08, 07:49 AM Flag
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YW and GL [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.29.08, 07:49 AM Flag
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ita most men underestimate the effect of an abortion on women [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.29.08, 07:35 AM Flag
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yes my point exactly. They don't have to live with the first hand experience [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.29.08, 07:37 AM Flag
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Have you heard of contraception? Why are you not on the pill, or at least try the pull-out method. There are ways to prevent having a child, use them [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.29.08, 07:39 AM Flag
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op, i amd eb'fing, use a condom and only once since 1yo db was born we used the pull out method [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.29.08, 07:41 AM Flag
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you should pull out ALL THE TIME if you don't want another dc. risk-taking not smart [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.29.08, 07:42 AM Flag
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I know i am wierd but I don't like the pill, I hate the way it makes me feel and I have heard of to many stories of infertility and I can't help but blame the pill. I am in the clinical studies industry and I still don't like the pill. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.29.08, 07:43 AM Flag
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There is no evidence that the pill causes infertility. The pill can acutally help preserve fertility because it suppresses ovulation. Our bodies were not meant to ovulate every month. They were made to be either pregnant or BFing most of the time, both which suppress ovulation. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.29.08, 10:25 AM Flag
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Tell him you looked into vasectamy (sp?) and you think that is the better option. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.29.08, 07:41 AM Flag
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i did and he laughed it off [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.29.08, 07:41 AM Flag
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Then you do they same. I am kinda an ass like that. He can't make an argument when he is not willing to meet you 1/2 way. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.29.08, 07:43 AM Flag
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i am with you but in the end he has to live with me and this db#3 and support us mentally and physically in a way [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.29.08, 07:45 AM Flag
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You really think he will not be loving to the db? If he is in love with the 1st 2 then definitely will be with #3 [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.29.08, 07:47 AM Flag
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He will, he is a great dad but there'll always be the feeling that I was the one to decide and we will be financially struggling for a very very long time for my decision [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.29.08, 07:48 AM Flag
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Yeah, well good luck. ALl this worry may be for nothing. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.29.08, 07:51 AM Flag
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np: it can't be all about him. This is your body and he has to respect that. You didn't get pg alone. He was there too [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.29.08, 07:47 AM Flag
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op, i understand, but he will have to support me and dc forever, sort of [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.29.08, 07:50 AM Flag
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Why don't you, um, take a pg test? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.29.08, 10:32 AM Flag
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