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05.28.08, 16:58 PM General Topics
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Why does this bother me? Dh and I are separated, getting divorced, I asked him to watch dc tomorrow night, he has plans. I asked him what, he wouldn't tell. wtf? I'm pissed off. Please tell me to get over it and give me good reasons to do so. [ Reply | Watch | Flag ]
General Topics 05.28.08, 04:58 PM Flag
 

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His life is not your problem any more. He doesn't owe you any favors. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.28.08, 04:59 PM Flag
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itda. if they're separated with no formal custody arrangement yet, he does owe her the occasional night out. in general, the mom gets screwed during the initial separation phase. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.28.08, 05:02 PM Flag
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either you'd be jealous if he had a date or you suspect his reason for not watching the kids is not legit. either way, i totally understand. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.28.08, 04:59 PM Flag
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not only should you get over it but you never should have asked him what his plans are. you are getting divorced. his activities are not your concern and he doesn't have to answer to you. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.28.08, 05:00 PM Flag
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harsh but true [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.28.08, 05:03 PM Flag
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i only agree with you if they already have a custody agreement set in place. if she's got the kids 24/7 and can only get a break if she asks him, then she may have a reason to question his no. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.28.08, 05:06 PM Flag
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