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05.28.08, 14:11 PM General Topics
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Remember when you broke up with a guy and he wanted to be friends? He'd try to be super nice because he felt bad for hurting you? The ones who wound up hurting you even more because they strung you along with false hope that things would change? Those guys suck! My dh is doing that and it sucks! What's worse, even though we're breaking up, he does stupid shit like the dishes when he watches dc, emails me jokes, wants to do stuff as a family, etc. Why can't he be a total bastard, not just a bastard who is cheating? So much easier. [ Reply | Watch | Flag ]
General Topics 05.28.08, 02:11 PM Flag
 

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oh, all guys I know fear nothing but not being remembered as a "good guy" they all want to be a "good guy" even if they're ripping your heart out in the process [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.28.08, 02:13 PM Flag
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That's my dh, alright! Wants to be the good guy, but then runs around on me. Not. The. Good. Guy. He should just give up and embrace his badness. Many women find that sexy. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.28.08, 02:14 PM Flag
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np: just tell him that. Say, "look, you're an asshole. you're a cheater. No amount of jokes or clean dishes is going to change that. If you want to be the good guy, go be someone else's good guy. I'm f**king the pool boy." [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.28.08, 02:18 PM Flag
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You are my new best friend. Seriously. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.28.08, 02:20 PM Flag
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my exbf did that while he was cheating (for basically most of our relationship) and before i knew about it. should have be onto it from that but just thought he was a rare good guy. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.28.08, 02:30 PM Flag
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a dh here: I always thought the other guys were the douchebags. The ones who turn into assholes/treat you like shit so you dump them so they don't have to pull the trigger. I've always been proud of the fact that none of my ex'es (I think) wish me ill will. I just learned something new. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.28.08, 02:30 PM Flag
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did you cheat on them? if not, they prob. do not wish you ill will. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.28.08, 02:31 PM Flag
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I have never cheated. (I've wanted to but I think that is normal.) [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.28.08, 02:35 PM Flag
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so not the same as what op is describing. trying to be the good guy even though he is clearly the bad guy, not just someone ending a relationship that isn't working. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.28.08, 02:36 PM Flag
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I was actually responding to OR... "All guys want to be a "good guy'" Sorry I was unclear. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.28.08, 02:41 PM Flag
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op: that is douchelike, it's true. Fwiw, dh seems to be trying that at the same time- continuing the other relationship until I finally divorce him, all the while being "nice" to me. Head case. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.28.08, 02:35 PM Flag
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I sat a friend down once who was a habitual douchebag and told him that what he was doing was both cowardly and unfair. That taking away the future is one thing and totally fair. But by behaving like that to force her hand is stealing her good memories of the relationship and that is unforgivable. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.28.08, 02:39 PM Flag
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But wait - has he told you you'll always have a special place in his heart?? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.28.08, 02:14 PM Flag
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omg, that is the worst [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.28.08, 02:20 PM Flag
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