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05.27.08, 19:19 PM General Topics
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Told husband tonight that I want to separate. Breaking point was this weekend when he did not attend my 40th Bday dinner and never even wished me a happy day. This is typical and I have grown tired and realize I deserve better. Have agonized over this for a while though bc of my 2 ds' (ages 1 and 5). Words of wisdom? [ Reply | Watch | Flag ]
General Topics 05.27.08, 07:19 PM Flag
 

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You do deserve better. You are doing something so difficult, but so brave. Your life can be very different and this is the beginning. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.27.08, 07:23 PM Flag
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really? sounds petty, on your part, and his. you have two very young children; can't you work on your relationship? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.27.08, 07:24 PM Flag
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She said "breaking point" I'm sure there's tons more to the story [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.27.08, 07:26 PM Flag
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agree with above poster, plus it [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.27.08, 07:27 PM Flag
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he won't go to counseling and hasn't responded to my attempts to connect. It's very painful to feel that my spouse actively tries to be mean and hurtful. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.27.08, 07:32 PM Flag
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do you understand what "breaking point" is? you really think OP hasn't tried to work on it? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.27.08, 07:33 PM Flag
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Sounds like you should just leave, take all the stuff, and he probably won't notice anyway. You're going to be so much happier, seriously. Why keep pounding on a locked door if there's nothing inside worth getting to? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.27.08, 07:30 PM Flag
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get out. my friends dh did the same exact thing to her and she is so much happier now that they are getting divorced. you are not unreasonable. you do not deserve this. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.27.08, 07:32 PM Flag
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I have no advice, but life is far too short to be with someone who treats you like this. Separating and starting over can be incredibly hard, but being alone is far better than being treated badly or with indifference by your partner. I wish you all the luck in the world. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.27.08, 07:35 PM Flag
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