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05.27.08, 11:44 AM New York City
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How do you deal with someone else being mean to your child? SIL yells at DD and for now i have stopped bring her up there, but i'm sure there is a better way of dealing with it? [ Reply | Watch | Flag ]
New York City 05.27.08, 11:44 AM Flag
 

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When she does it, what does she say? To play devil's advocate, perhaps you are underdisciplining your child in SIL's home. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.27.08, 11:45 AM Flag
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no, she is very competitive. And disciplines differently than me. I don't hit and she does. Has hit DD's hand and yelled at her. It was not necessary. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.27.08, 11:46 AM Flag
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^ Her DD is 1 year younger. And she compares them all the time. I just don't care for it. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.27.08, 11:47 AM Flag
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Whoa. I would not bring her over either. But I would also tell SIL in way not to start WWIII that you're anti-hitting, hand included, and would appreciate if she would leave the disclpline to you while in her home [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.27.08, 11:48 AM Flag
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ITA [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.27.08, 11:49 AM Flag
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I know, i really do have to tell her that... Next time we are forced into a situation i will mention it. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.27.08, 11:50 AM Flag
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wow! i would never hit any of my neices or nephews!! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.27.08, 11:51 AM Flag
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np: after I helped my SIL picked her teeth up off the floor I would explain that she is not allowed to hit my child. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.27.08, 12:01 PM Flag
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i would say to her "no hitting!" and then send her to the timeout chair. does one adult really think it's okay to physically discipline another person's child? if she had an issue with how your kid behaves, she should bring it to your attention, not raise her hand to your child. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.27.08, 12:14 PM Flag
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