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05.27.08, 09:39 AM General Topics
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When DH and I got back from our Memorial Day weekend away with teh kids at his parents, we found a dozen used condoms and opened condom wrappers in our bed. I think our neighbor's son may have used our bed for sex. Our neighbor has a key to our house. What do I do now? [ Reply | Watch | Flag ]
General Topics 05.27.08, 09:39 AM Flag
 

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first of all, ewwwwwww! second, change your locks. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.27.08, 09:40 AM Flag
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ewww..toss out the bedding and have a talk with your neighbors [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.27.08, 09:40 AM Flag
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We put the bedding in a bag and I left my neighbor a voicemail to talk when they get home from work [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.27.08, 09:41 AM Flag
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good..and now change the locks too [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.27.08, 09:42 AM Flag
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call the poilce. let them deal with it. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.27.08, 09:41 AM Flag
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I dont think this is police-worthy. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.27.08, 09:42 AM Flag
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police?? hang on a bit. she should check w/neighbor first [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.27.08, 09:48 AM Flag
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if this is true, that is so very nasty. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.27.08, 09:41 AM Flag
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first off Ewwww and I'm sorry this happened. Change locks and talk to neighbors [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.27.08, 09:42 AM Flag
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We paln on talking to the neighbor and probably changing the locks [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.27.08, 09:43 AM Flag
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cool. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.27.08, 09:42 AM Flag
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you should talk to the kid before you talk to the parents [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.27.08, 09:43 AM Flag
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General Topics 05.27.08, 09:44 AM Flag
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Why would a teenager do this? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.27.08, 09:44 AM Flag
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why? lol. There are many teens that make idiotic decisions in life [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.27.08, 09:45 AM Flag
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How old is this "kid"? He's obviously got serious problems, he can't even bother to clean up? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.27.08, 09:45 AM Flag
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17 [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.27.08, 09:45 AM Flag
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^^^I am surprised in that he's a clean cut, nice guy....teh typical boy next door.....I know he has a girlfriend, etc. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.27.08, 09:46 AM Flag
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np: do you think he gave the keys to a friend or friends of his? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.27.08, 09:47 AM Flag
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I don't know....I would guess it was him, but it could be he loaned them out. That I am not sure. All I can say is its all same brand of condoms [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.27.08, 09:49 AM Flag
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same brand as what? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.27.08, 10:02 AM Flag
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all the same brand of condoms [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.27.08, 10:04 AM Flag
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I'm missing something. what's the significans of all the condoms being the same brand? you mean it was a stream of friends all using the same box? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.27.08, 10:05 AM Flag
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More saying that it is likely to be the same person if its teh same brand or they used the same box [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.27.08, 10:06 AM Flag
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ok. hadnt thought of the idea of it being a bunch of different kids. Now that's really a gross thought. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.27.08, 10:12 AM Flag
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One brand in br. If it wa a "party" it would be different brands. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.27.08, 10:06 AM Flag
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Is he a good kid who did something dumb or an asshole? If the later, I would tell the parents I want to have a talk with that kid. That I am going to hand him a bill to replace the bedding. That his choice is he does that or I call the cops. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.27.08, 09:46 AM Flag
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He's a pretty clean cut, nice kid....very much the type of boy you'd want your daughter dating....helpful, nice, all of that....he's definatly not a jerk [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.27.08, 09:47 AM Flag
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are you sure it was him? Did you get home early? Something is off. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.27.08, 10:02 AM Flag
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got back in the period we said we would. he does have a girlfriend [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.27.08, 10:04 AM Flag
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why would he just leave them there? prob a prank but all the same, not nice [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.27.08, 09:47 AM Flag
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That's awful! You have to find out what happened b/c it could be even worse if it wasn't their teenaged ds. Maybe he gave the key to friend or something which could have been a disaster. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.27.08, 09:48 AM Flag
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That's what I want to know.....last night DH and I were too tired to talk to them and we figured we'd wait. We took all teh condoms and put them in a plastic bag and toook pictures of the bed with them on it so it was known [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.27.08, 09:50 AM Flag
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when you talk to neighbors, dont be accusatory, just state facts and that they are only family with a key. they will be embarrassed enough. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.27.08, 09:49 AM Flag
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that's what we are planning.....we exchanged keys with them a few years ago as a back up,etc [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.27.08, 09:50 AM Flag
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NP: If he knows that if something was found, his family would be to blame, don't think he would be that stupid to leave condoms around. Sounds like someone else got a hold of those keys [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.27.08, 09:53 AM Flag
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I am not sure where they keep the keys in their house. So I would guess he is involved. The only other people in the house are his parents and his 12 year old brother (who I doubt did this). [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.27.08, 09:57 AM Flag
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