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05.26.08, 19:37 PM General Topics
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How would you react? My exboyfriend are still living togother (not for long!). Saturday morning his phone rang. It was his day with ds (they had museum plans). I asked the ex who it was. He said "None of your business". I asked that he not bring a date with him. He lied and did anyway. I don't want dc to be confused. [ Reply | Watch | Flag ]
General Topics 05.26.08, 07:37 PM Flag
 

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it would piss me off , but if you aren't together, you cannot control what goes on when you aren't there. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.26.08, 07:38 PM Flag
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But, I don't want ds to be exposed to "dates" unless they are serious and long-term [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.26.08, 07:39 PM Flag
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not your choice [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.26.08, 07:40 PM Flag
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I wouldn't either, but you really cannot control this. sorry. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.26.08, 07:40 PM Flag
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what a mess you two have created for ds [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.26.08, 07:39 PM Flag
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unfortunately, I don't think it's your place anymore. How long were you together- ie, did you have a relationship with dc? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.26.08, 07:39 PM Flag
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???? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.26.08, 07:40 PM Flag
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OHHHHHHH! It's there kid? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.26.08, 07:42 PM Flag
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^^ I thought it was his from another relationship [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.26.08, 07:43 PM Flag
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^^^their kid (I'm going to bed now- sorry) [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.26.08, 07:43 PM Flag
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you're not together anymore. you can't tell him who he spends time with, even when he's with your dc. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.26.08, 07:40 PM Flag
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I know your right. I just want him to wait until we separate in a real sense and there are clear boundaries. The ex woke up and decided he wanted out - no therapy or anything. He is also trying to sue me for primary custody and no support. His reason - I am working full-time now and unable to care for ds. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.26.08, 07:43 PM Flag
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How are you living with him? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.26.08, 07:44 PM Flag
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I am searching for a place to live. It's tough in New York to find a decent place with my small salery. I may have to relocate to Philly if legally allowed to. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.26.08, 07:51 PM Flag
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Ignore my typos! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.26.08, 07:51 PM Flag
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You're not married, so what legality would prevent it? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.26.08, 08:02 PM Flag
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What are you going to do about that? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.26.08, 07:44 PM Flag
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i'm so sorry. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.26.08, 07:45 PM Flag
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YOu need to DESTRY him. btw- these crap things he's pulling are important in trial [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.26.08, 07:47 PM Flag
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So he's unemployed? Is he a sahd? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.26.08, 07:58 PM Flag
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I don't get why he's still living with you. KICK HIM OUT [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.26.08, 07:45 PM Flag
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The house is not in my name - we are not married. Big mistake on my part. I can't force him to leave. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.26.08, 07:49 PM Flag
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Then you leave with dc and your stuff and start the process. Best for you to be proactive rather than reactive [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.26.08, 07:50 PM Flag
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I am. I've been apartment hunting for awhile. I may need to take off from work this week. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.26.08, 07:52 PM Flag
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sorry but I agree,he should not do that.Definately you will get sole,dont give that up!! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.26.08, 07:49 PM Flag
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