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05.25.08, 20:03 PM Toddler
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I can not get dh to abide by any separation rules, except that he doesn't sleep here. No matter what I say he is here in the morning, stays all day (weekends), leaves when dc go to bed. Sometimes it's tolerable, most times I am irritated. He just does whatever the hell he wants at all times. Oh- unless there is something better to do. Then he goes out and I'm happy. If he wants to stay married and keep his home you'd think he'd apologize for his affair, stop their "friendship", go to counseling and work at it. But no, and I wouldn't take him back now anyway. [ Reply | Watch | Flag ]
Toddler 05.25.08, 08:03 PM Flag
 

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can you change the locks and leave during the day? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.25.08, 08:04 PM Flag
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change the locks. get a legal separation. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.25.08, 08:04 PM Flag
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op: I am working on the legal part. The locks thing, I'm afraid he'd get nasty about it and I'm trying my best to keep things even for dc. I'm mainly venting, I know this will end someday soon. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.25.08, 08:06 PM Flag
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understood. glad you're working on it. if it helps, this weekend is the one year anniversary of my kicking my ex to the curb. and i feel like a new woman. we didn't have dc's together so it was less complicated. just wanted you to know that there's a light at the end of this particular tunnel... [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.25.08, 08:08 PM Flag
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Thanks- I look forward to that. I can't believe I married someone who would just toss me aside like he has. I lost my job this week, he was here (of course) and barely had anything to say in consolation. Nobody would treat a stranger that way, yet that's how he treats me. So you can see why I feel great when he's not around... [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.25.08, 08:12 PM Flag
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You can choose not to answer the door/buzzer/doorman calling up [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.25.08, 08:05 PM Flag
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