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05.25.08, 18:36 PM General Topics
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Let me try this again. I went to a restaurant with a white coworker, (I'm black) and the blace male cashier was so obviously rude to me! He was very nice to my coworker and to everyone else who came in to order. I didn't think to mention it, but when me and my coworker got back in the car he said, "Wow, why was that guy so rude to you?" It was so weird. [ Reply | Watch | Flag ]
General Topics 05.25.08, 06:36 PM Flag
 

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that is weird. Had you been in there before? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.08, 06:37 PM Flag
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OP: Nope, I had never been there before, and I'd never seen this guy before either. I was cordial to him, but he even went so far as to ask my coworker what my name was for my order. I was standing right there putting a straw in my drink. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.08, 06:39 PM Flag
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sounds like he has issues [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.08, 06:39 PM Flag
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maybe he was sexist, maybe he was dealing with internalized racism, maybe you reminded him of his ex-girlfriend [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.08, 06:37 PM Flag
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np maybe she looks like soemone who stiffs him everytime she comes in, maybe he thought she was talking about him [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.08, 06:38 PM Flag
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OP: I know it wasn't a sexism thing because he was actually smiling and joking with other women. (Who happened to be white.) This was a fast food restaurant so it had nothing to do with tips. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.08, 06:40 PM Flag
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maybe he thought you were together (you and coworker) and was giving you the cold shoulder for dating a white guy? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.08, 07:44 PM Flag
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ITA [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.08, 08:04 PM Flag
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He was a JERK and you win major points for not responding in kind. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.08, 07:52 PM Flag
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Probably was being a jerk because he thought you were dating and has issues. Probably just an ignorant jerk -- forget it. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.08, 08:39 PM Flag
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