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05.25.08, 08:19 AM New York City
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If your dh was negating, mean-spirited, and degrading toward you on a regular basis, would you consider divorce? In my case, he is a very good dh in every other respect.... [ Reply | Watch | Flag ]
New York City 05.25.08, 08:19 AM Flag
 

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General Topics 05.25.08, 08:23 AM Flag
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Leave him. If you think it's good to stay for the dc, remember that the dc is living in this environment of you being degraded on a regular basis. Your dc is growing up with this as your spirit (or lack thereof) [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.25.08, 08:24 AM Flag
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what "other respect" is there if on a regular basis he treats you like shit? try marital therapy or a trial separation. failing that divorce when the kids are young is less trauma IMO [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.25.08, 08:38 AM Flag
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OP: what if you kinda knew this about him before you married him, you just were so hot to trot that you made a decision to deal with it. that's not the case for me, but maybe 5% of it.... [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.25.08, 05:33 PM Flag
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you still need to be happy esp. for your kids. ifyou made a mistake remedy it. don't be a martyr. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.25.08, 08:15 PM Flag
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if you have kids then yes i would, because i'd be teaching my dcs (esp dds) that being treated this way is ok [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.25.08, 08:17 PM Flag
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Are you unhappy? Would you be happier without him? My exbf was like this. I was so bent on getting married I probably wouldve married him if I hadnt been lured away by another man... [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.25.08, 08:18 PM Flag
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