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05.24.08, 13:32 PM General Topics
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If you knew your DC wasn't DH's, would you tell DH? [ Reply | Watch | Flag ]
General Topics 05.24.08, 01:32 PM Flag
 

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Not if you wanted to stay with him. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.08, 01:42 PM Flag
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Hmm. I'm in a bit of a pickle. The older our son gets, the more obvious it becomes that he's not my DH's. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.08, 01:48 PM Flag
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does it also become obvious who the father is? (i mean is someone still in your lives who ds is slowly becoming a clone of?) [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.08, 01:49 PM Flag
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YES! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.08, 01:50 PM Flag
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does dh suspect? are other people becoming suspicious? does the real father know? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.08, 01:52 PM Flag
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DH has no idea (as far as I know). But it's becoming REALLY obvious. We're both very anglo, while the father is Greek/Italian. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.08, 01:55 PM Flag
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OUCH! oh, this is gonna be the family skeleton in the family closet [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.08, 01:56 PM Flag
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Well, luckily I was able to trace SOME Mediterranean ancestry in our family tree on my grandmother's side, as well as DH's. So far that's been the excuse. But DS is looking more like an exact clone of HIM every day. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.08, 01:58 PM Flag
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you need to tell him, because honestly, he already has the feeling that loinfruit is not his. and when it really clicks for him, ooo that's the end of you. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.08, 02:00 PM Flag
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Well, we DO have some Mediterranean ancestry ... so I'm sure that's what he's thinking. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.08, 02:01 PM Flag
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denial. denial. we all havea gut feeling about our children, even men. he knows. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.08, 02:03 PM Flag
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I don't think so. If he knew or even suspected, he would have confronted me about it. I don't want to tell him because he'd be really upset if he knew who the real father was. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.08, 02:05 PM Flag
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really upset is the understatement of the year. he's going to punch through a wall, make sure you duck [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.08, 02:07 PM Flag
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do you have friends or other family members who suspect? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.08, 01:57 PM Flag
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does the real father know? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.08, 01:58 PM Flag
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No. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.08, 01:59 PM Flag
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np: wow, how long have you known it's not dh's? were you married at the time? just dating? taking a break? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.08, 01:52 PM Flag
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look, you were selfish once by cheating, don't be selfish again by not telling this man the truth. honestly, i am really questioning your maturity. heredity is nothing to play with. men have killed over less [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.08, 02:12 PM Flag
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you need to understand men, honey. tell DH because if he finds out on his own he's going to murder you. men do NOT play around with their offspring [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.08, 01:59 PM Flag
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How old is dc? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.08, 02:08 PM Flag
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6 years. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.08, 02:10 PM Flag
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only have 1 dc? how long married? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.08, 02:11 PM Flag
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