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05.23.08, 12:58 PM General Topics
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wondering if anyone else has the exact opposite sex drive as their partner. Its killing me here. Love our son, home, everything else. But the difference in desire is destroying us. [ Reply | Watch | Flag ]
General Topics 05.23.08, 12:58 PM Flag
 

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It's not destroying us, but we do have our issues about it (and have since we were dating). [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.08, 12:59 PM Flag
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Is there a way to make things peaceful? Its become such a problem that we are fighting almost daily and I dont know how much more I can take. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.08, 01:01 PM Flag
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Who wants it more - you or him? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.08, 01:01 PM Flag
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Me. I'd settle for once a week or once every other week. He's content with about once every two months. I'm trying to be good about it but after 3 weeks pass I'm about ready to kill him. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.08, 01:03 PM Flag
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Ah - you're the opposite of us. My dh wants it every other night (and thinks that's a compromise). We have a 2yo and a db - so I'm exhausted. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.08, 01:04 PM Flag
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I'm so jealous. Every other night would be a dream come true. Right now its more like every other month. I am loyal but very very tempted lately. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.08, 01:06 PM Flag
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This is what I need to hear - I know if I don't keep him happy someone else will. But, with the babies, I'm so tired, the last thing I want is sex. I'm working on it, though. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.08, 01:07 PM Flag
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I wish dh thought this way. Once or twice I've been frustrated enough to tell him another man would actually be grateful for a woman who wants it frequently. He has NO fear. After going on 3 years of this he should be worried. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.08, 01:10 PM Flag
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this is us. but he's ready to roll if I initiate. I just let that bug me. also ttc for 3 years kind of puts crimp in things. and I'm postmeno so now I have no sex drive. He won't initiate = no sex [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.08, 01:06 PM Flag
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I have been shot down too many times, so I never initiate. And he only initiates after 2 months of me bugging him (he basically does it to shut me up) which makes the sex pretty unenjoyable. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.08, 01:08 PM Flag
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np: has he had his hormones checked seen a dr? Maybe he has a medical issue. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.08, 01:09 PM Flag
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If only. At least that could be fixed. He's healthy. Just no interest. And its killing my self-esteem a little more each day. I keep trying to figure out whats turning him off. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.08, 01:11 PM Flag
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this is really strange there has to be a bigger issue then just being "turned off" [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.08, 01:13 PM Flag
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Like what? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.08, 01:15 PM Flag
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this is about him, not about you [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.08, 01:18 PM Flag
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Its definitely about me. How can it not be when he is rejecting me, neglecting me, and leaving me so frustrated I fantasize daily about cheating!! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.08, 01:20 PM Flag
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what about stress, depression? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.08, 01:21 PM Flag
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I don't think its those either. Our lives are fairly simple. We both work decent jobs, have a great kid, etc etc. I dont know what it is, except maybe he lost interest in me and doesn't want to break the family up over it. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.08, 01:23 PM Flag
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I'd be very suspicious of a man who refuses to have sex more than once every 2 mo. Gay gay gay. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.08, 01:11 PM Flag
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No no no. He's been with alot of women. He had a reputation when we met. It took a long time to get him to settle down. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.08, 01:14 PM Flag
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Just proves my point. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.08, 01:15 PM Flag
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that he's gay? No. I would believe anything BUT that. He hasn't a gay bone in his body. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.08, 01:16 PM Flag
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madonna/whore syndrome? or elvis syndrome (I just made that up), has it just been since db? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.08, 01:19 PM Flag
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It started after we moved in together. Continued through pregnancy, postpartum, and continues and continues. . . [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.08, 01:21 PM Flag
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you really should get counseling [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.08, 01:23 PM Flag
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I told him so and he said it was a waste of money, that he is totally turned on by me just busy with other things right now. Like what? God only knows. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.08, 01:24 PM Flag
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us too [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.08, 01:02 PM Flag
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What are you doing about it? Do you ignore the issue or work on it? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.08, 01:06 PM Flag
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I think about it but haven't started working on it. probably should [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.08, 01:11 PM Flag
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