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05.23.08, 12:58 PM Toddler
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I accused dh of having affair, but he denies it, says it's a friendship. It totally upsets me but still he refuses to stop seeing the woman, even as friends. He knows how upset this makes me. It's like I don't even exist, like they just go on with their friendship. Now that I've accused and gotten no satisfaction on it I feel a million times worse. Time to play the separation card? I've asked for therapy and been shot down. This sucks. [ Reply | Watch | Flag ]
Toddler 05.23.08, 12:58 PM Flag
 

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trust your gut (esp if you are not a jealous person to begin with). same thing happened with my mom and dad, and after a couple of years she finally caught him. not sure if her accusations drove him to it or not, but there is no excuse. if they are too close, then something has to change. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.08, 01:00 PM Flag
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i agree, you are feeling that something is not right, and if he refuses to change the situation then he is not respecting you, trust your gut, play the separation card [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.08, 01:07 PM Flag
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a dh: Years ago I had a woman I was great friends with. I was dating a woman and we got engaged. She was horribly jealous even though this woman and I were never more than just friends. I stopped talking to my friend to appease my fiancé. Fiancé and I eventually broke up. I will regret betraying my friend to my grave. I did what I thought was right in the moment but in my heart of hearts I knew it was wrong. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.08, 01:14 PM Flag
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Only b/c you wish you f'ed her. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.08, 01:17 PM Flag
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If you are going to try and segregate the man in your life from every woman he might ever hope to f' you are not going to have a lot of spare time. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.08, 01:46 PM Flag
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Why didn't you sleep with her? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.08, 01:19 PM Flag
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She was with someone, I was with someone, timing and opportunity never happened. Then eventually we were just friends. Neither of us were "players" so fuck buddies was not in either of our natures. (This obviously misses the point but I'll play along.) [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.08, 01:30 PM Flag
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There's no reason he should be carrying on a relationship with another woman, esp if it makes you uncomfortable. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.08, 01:17 PM Flag
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What don't you like about their relatonship? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.08, 01:18 PM Flag
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When DH and I got married I told him he had to stop talking to all women he knew outside of work and that if I caught him talking to any of them I would suspect he was having sex with htem and I would leave him immediatly! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.08, 01:19 PM Flag
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just a little too much. But close... ;-) [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.08, 01:33 PM Flag
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