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05.23.08, 10:52 AM General Topics
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old boyfriend from 14 years ago just sent me an email. we parted on not such great terms but had been friends for 10 years before. hadn't heard from him since. i was a wreck then, and he was not into any type of relationship. just strange to hear from him after all this time. [ Reply | Watch | Flag ]
General Topics 05.23.08, 10:52 AM Flag

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wow... I would love if my old boyfriend contacted me; but his wife made sure that would never happen [ Reply | More

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General Topics 05.23.08, 10:53 AM Flag

it's probably better that way. he asked me what i had been up to since last we saw each other. i only told him the present- that i have a baby and husband, where i live, what i do. just wanted to get that out on the first email [ Reply | More

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General Topics 05.23.08, 10:54 AM Flag

Did he say what prompted him to write now? [ Reply | More

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General Topics 05.23.08, 10:55 AM Flag

no. just that he had googled me and found me and that it may not be me (it obviously is, i've googled me before and there is no way he would think otherwise) and that he would not write more until he knew it was me. i told him i googled him and that a few different sites popped up- one where a person of the same name killed a 17 year old girl, was that he? [ Reply | More

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General Topics 05.23.08, 10:59 AM Flag

^^^i do think that he always loved me. i did not initially care for him, but grew to love him. he would never be the kind of guy i would be with now. but when we were together, i was speeding into a downward spiral (all the wayt to attempted suicide.!) so i was a mess. [ Reply | More

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General Topics 05.23.08, 11:00 AM Flag

be careful...i just had an ex contact me. Similar story as yours. I wrote him back, a little about my life, asked general questions about his and he never wrote me back! I find it strangely devestating. [ Reply | More

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General Topics 05.23.08, 11:14 AM Flag

he was checking out to see if you were available. so is this guy, i think. i'd be okay with that.... [ Reply | More

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General Topics 05.23.08, 11:18 AM Flag

do you think so? I almost felt like he was fucking with me. But maybe that's because I'm so freaking hormonal these days (have 3mo) [ Reply | More

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General Topics 05.23.08, 11:22 AM Flag

yes. that has happened to my dh before. (before me) [ Reply | More

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General Topics 05.23.08, 11:23 AM Flag

maybe he's writing from prison! [ Reply | More

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General Topics 05.23.08, 11:11 AM Flag