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05.23.08, 08:52 AM General Topics
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DH here who having an affair, any questions? [ Reply | Watch | Flag ]
General Topics 05.23.08, 08:52 AM Flag
 

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who knows? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.08, 08:54 AM Flag
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My best friend [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.08, 08:54 AM Flag
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how is the sex different [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.08, 08:54 AM Flag
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She is more adventurous and loves to roleplay more than DW does [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.08, 08:54 AM Flag
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adventurous how? do you do it on the floor by the door, in the car up against the mini bar? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.08, 08:56 AM Flag
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The entire hotel room, once in a hotel hallway, elevators, etc [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.08, 08:56 AM Flag
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do you do it in her butt? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.08, 08:58 AM Flag
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how do you do it in hotels without your wife finding out about you spending the money? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.08, 08:59 AM Flag
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She works for a hotel so free rooms. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.08, 09:00 AM Flag
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how convenient for you guys. I'm jealous. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.08, 09:00 AM Flag
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I know, it makes it so much easier for us. We even did it once in the laundry room in a cart full of sheets. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.08, 09:01 AM Flag
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how would your wife feel if she found out? do you think about that or worry about it? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.08, 09:03 AM Flag
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I know she would be devestated but I haven't thought about it that much. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.08, 09:04 AM Flag
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well, you lost me there. How could you not think about it that much? I'm the poster from below and while I'm attracted enough to someone to cheat, I know it would devastate dh if he found out and that thought devastates ME. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.08, 09:05 AM Flag
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I try not to think about it because I know my wife would be devastated if she found out. It would destroy her entire world. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.08, 09:07 AM Flag
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Are you planning to continue the affair indefinitely? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.08, 09:09 AM Flag
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right now yes [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.08, 09:10 AM Flag
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ack! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.08, 09:04 AM Flag
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did you get a thank-you note from the security guys? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.08, 08:59 AM Flag
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ooooooo, youre going to get flaaaaaamed [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.08, 08:54 AM Flag
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fake [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.08, 08:54 AM Flag
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is the affair not affording you the attention you need, either, so that you also need to come here? loser... [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.08, 08:58 AM Flag
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I wanted to share with my UB friends [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.08, 08:59 AM Flag
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Yes, I have a question: I have a good male friend I'm insanely attracted to and I'm sort of sure he feels the same, but he seems to go out of his way to talk about how much he loves his wife and how important "family values" are to him (and he's a liberal!) and etc etc. What's he doing? telling me it'll never happen or trying to convince himself? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.08, 08:58 AM Flag
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Probably a little bit of both....reminding you that it won't happen and convincing himself. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.08, 08:59 AM Flag
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so how can I make it happen? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.08, 09:00 AM Flag
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have you talked to him about it? does he know your feelings? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.08, 09:01 AM Flag
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never. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.08, 09:02 AM Flag
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have you been alone with him? have you thought of seducing him? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.08, 09:02 AM Flag
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yes, we have lunches, go out for drinks, stuff like that. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.08, 09:03 AM Flag
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Have you done anythign on those to signal that you are attracted to him? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.08, 09:03 AM Flag
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yes, we flirt, for sure. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.08, 09:04 AM Flag
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Have you thought of acting on it? Maybe trying to seduce him? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.08, 09:05 AM Flag
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I'm terrified of being rejected by him. Then I wouldn't have him as a friend OR lover plus I'd feel humiliated. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.08, 09:08 AM Flag
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Do you think he feels the same way/ [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.08, 09:09 AM Flag
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Do you want to do it with him? Are you married? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.08, 08:59 AM Flag
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Yes, I'm married. Yes, I want to do it with him. BADLY. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.08, 09:00 AM Flag
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Why do you want to do it with him? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.08, 09:00 AM Flag
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I don't think I can even describe the level of attraction. It's insane, once in a lifetime chemistry. I'm not saying it's right; I'm just being honest. I could come right now just thinking about him. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.08, 09:02 AM Flag
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What's wrong with DH? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.08, 09:03 AM Flag
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nothing. He's wonderful. A wonderful dh and a wonderful dad--and a wonderful lover. It just has nothing to do with him. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.08, 09:04 AM Flag
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are you still attracted to him? how often do you have sex with him? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.08, 09:05 AM Flag
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well, we are the parents of two young kids ;-). maybe 3-4 times a month? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.08, 09:05 AM Flag
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ok.....are you attracted to DH? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.08, 09:06 AM Flag
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yes. we've been together 15 years. I love him and am attracted to him but it's nothing like what this other guy makes me feel [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.08, 09:07 AM Flag
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What is about this guy that makes you feel that way? How do you know him? Does DH know him? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.08, 09:07 AM Flag
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we both know him, but he's my friend. He's gorgeous, funny and smart, but it's more than that. What makes chemistry btwn two people?? I don't know. Does anyone know? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.08, 09:10 AM Flag
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Where do you meet him for lunch? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.08, 09:11 AM Flag
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If you had to choose right now which one to have sex with, who would you choose? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.08, 09:06 AM Flag
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um... the other guy. especially if no one had to find out and no one got hurt. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.08, 09:07 AM Flag
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Why the other guy? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.08, 09:08 AM Flag
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np: then you really should not go down this road. ts not like something is wrong with your life. you will distroy your marriage for chemistry?? which you already have with dh [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.08, 09:07 AM Flag
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I know that this is correct logically, but... it's a big But. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.08, 09:08 AM Flag
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What would DH do if he found out you slept with this guy? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.08, 09:09 AM Flag
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be hurt. Probably not leave me. but he would be so hurt. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.08, 09:11 AM Flag
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New DH Here: If you were my wife, I'd file for divorce, take the kids and the house and make sure you suffered for cheating on me with my friend! You are married, that means sex with one man. If you want to have sex this other guy then you will destroy your family and ruin your children! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.08, 09:13 AM Flag
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okay, thanks, Pat Robertson. Now go thump your Bible somewhere until you can play nicely with others. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.08, 09:14 AM Flag
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What attracts you to the other guy? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.08, 09:10 AM Flag
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He is everything dh isn't. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.08, 09:15 AM Flag
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What is that? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.08, 09:21 AM Flag
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Invite him to your house for lunch, greet him in a sexy lingerie and start taking his pants off and see how he reacts? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.08, 09:22 AM Flag
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yes, you and guys like my ex-dh gave me herpes and. chlamydia. check yourself before you wreck your lovely wife. asshole [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.08, 09:29 AM Flag
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