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05.23.08, 08:31 AM General Topics
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MIL is notorious for saying very rude, condescending remarks (in a very nice way) to me in the past that I have become hypersensitive to everything she says. Yesterday she asks dh on the phone how I was feeling (I am 38 weeks pg). DH says I am fine. THen she continues to ask "Is she having any swelling?" He says no. I know I am overly sensitive because I am pg, but it would give her great satisfaction is I looked horrible. [ Reply | Watch | Flag ]
General Topics 05.23.08, 08:31 AM Flag
 

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you ARE over sensitive. SHe is envious. It's a big time. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.08, 08:32 AM Flag
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this is you, not her. (i'm doing the same thing with my mil. she calls to see how i'm feeling and i'm very snooty with her. just b/c i'm angry and i don't like her and don't want her to have a part of this). [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.08, 08:33 AM Flag
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i agree that she sounds jealous. i feel for you - i have an awful mil too. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.08, 08:34 AM Flag
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OP: right? why ask if someone is having swelling? the only polite question imo is to ask how someone is feeling. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.08, 08:36 AM Flag
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i disagree with you both. sounds like she's pushign to be a part of it. but that's not impolite or jealous. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.08, 08:37 AM Flag
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She is Passsive Agressive. ignore [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.08, 08:34 AM Flag
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You know.. it takes two to engage and you are seriously projecting. Sometimes, how other people behave is actually NOT about you. Just take her completely at face value and stop wasting your energy on her/this. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.08, 08:36 AM Flag
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