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05.22.08, 17:49 PM NY Schools
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Ds is so shy that I'm worried about him separating for the ERB. He has a summmer bd, and there is no testing at the school during the summer. Should I have him take it at the office in the summer (where he may have trouble separating) or wait till the fall. If I wait till the fall, I won't have the scores until after we apply to schools. [ Reply | Watch | Flag ]
NY Schools 05.22.08, 05:49 PM Flag
 

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IME, it is much, much better to wait. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.22.08, 05:54 PM Flag
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you don't think not having the scores will hurt us? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.22.08, 05:56 PM Flag
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you may have to cata wider net of schools (always a good idea, anyway) and you will still no long before the porcess is over....you may still be interviewing, anyway. Much better to have of a "hurt" to have not great scores than to not know the scores. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.22.08, 06:07 PM Flag
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ughhh typo queen...cast a net, know long...process [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.22.08, 06:08 PM Flag
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do any of the schools do pre-screening based on ERB scores? I feel like for a summer bd, we may get automatically eliminated due to the bd. If he has a high ERB, it may actually help, but if they're doing pre-screening they may not have the ERB. Am I overthinking this? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.22.08, 06:16 PM Flag
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You are overthinking..take them in the fall. they will all interview you if you apply. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.22.08, 06:18 PM Flag
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thanks for that. waiting seems to be the reasonable thing to do [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.22.08, 06:22 PM Flag
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I personally feel Trinity prescreened as we interviewed way before scores were in and didn't get the time of day (even though clearly diverse). [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.22.08, 07:10 PM Flag
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>>scores came in at 99x3 - but still too late. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.22.08, 07:13 PM Flag
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do it at school if he is shy [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.22.08, 05:54 PM Flag
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ITA. And not having the scores won't hurt you, OP. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.22.08, 06:07 PM Flag
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OP: anyone else care to chime in? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.22.08, 06:05 PM Flag
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Yes, my advice is to wait--particularly if he is just turning 4 this summer. At the schools they get them used to the tester and he will already be separated from you for the school day. Also that gives him extra time to mature. I will tell you from personal experience however that a summer boy is going to be almost impossible to place in school even if he does incredibly well on the ERB. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.22.08, 06:08 PM Flag
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ita, even summer sibs were asked to wait a year this year (not related to feedback) [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.22.08, 06:09 PM Flag
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Our PSD said to wait until DC is 4-1/2. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.22.08, 06:12 PM Flag
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I agree. DD was shy and I had her take ERB at school a few years ago. No issue about separating, and she did great. Am taking DS to the ERB office this summer, since he is not shy at all. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.22.08, 06:11 PM Flag
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OP: Thanks all. Sounds like you all agree that I should wait. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.22.08, 06:14 PM Flag
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My advice is to take it in October -- after DS has a chance to get acclimated to his new class, but in time to have results and make last minute adjustments to applications. And, of course, apply broadly. GL! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.22.08, 06:16 PM Flag
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