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05.22.08, 11:28 AM General Topics
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WWYD? I just learned that my ex-bf and his wife lost their first baby in childbirth. My heart is breaking over and over for him. I don't think his wife would appreciate receiving anything from me, but I just wish I could do something. Is it strange to send some flowers anonymously? Any other ideas? Should I just myob and write my emotions in a letter to him that I never mail? [ Reply | Watch | Flag ]
General Topics 05.22.08, 11:28 AM Flag
 

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anonymous is weird. depends on how much contact you have had recently if mail or email would be odd. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.08, 11:29 AM Flag
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This isn't about you. Deal with your own sense of saddness and loss. It's not the time to reach out. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.08, 11:29 AM Flag
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You're completely right, I needed to hear that. I have so many unresolved emotions from our relationship and this just brought them all to a head. I have to deal on my own. The strange part is that I can't talk to dh about this and he's now my best friend, I'm not sure who to turn to. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.08, 11:31 AM Flag
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i would send an email to your ex and say that you are sorry. i would NOT send anything to the wife. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.08, 11:30 AM Flag
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We haven't been in contact in so long, an out of the blue email would be strange. I didn't mean that I would send something to the wife, but anything that I send to the house would be from both. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.08, 11:34 AM Flag
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^^for not from [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.08, 11:34 AM Flag
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do nothing then. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.08, 11:36 AM Flag
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yes, I think I just have to deal with my sadness and work through these feelings. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.08, 11:37 AM Flag
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do nothing [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.08, 11:36 AM Flag
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Do nothing. This couple does not want to hear from you. Get over yourself [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.08, 11:37 AM Flag
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Yeah, I know. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.08, 11:39 AM Flag
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^^I just still feel so strongly for him. Not a day has gone by since we broke up that I haven't thought about him. I can't believe our lives took the turns that they did and that we didn't end up together. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.08, 11:40 AM Flag
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I was so stupid [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.08, 11:43 AM Flag
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I was going to ask why you can't talk to DH, but I guess this is the answer. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.08, 11:50 AM Flag
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yep. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.08, 11:52 AM Flag
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^^I can talk to dh about my sadness about the baby because I feel like that's scary enough for any parent to hear about, but the rest is something I need to work through on my own. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.08, 11:53 AM Flag
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Yup. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.08, 11:54 AM Flag
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why would you inject yourself into their lives is the real question? move on. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.08, 11:54 AM Flag
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Yes, I know, thank you for reinforcing that. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.08, 11:55 AM Flag
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