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05.22.08, 05:38 AM General Topics
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does your dh do anything to help with kids in am before work? i know im a sahm but why give me attitude thtat i need you to change the baby's diaper in am - i do it all day long (except the few hours a week sitter comes, which i know he is resentful about) so many f'd up issues [ Reply | Watch | Flag ]
General Topics 05.22.08, 05:38 AM Flag
 

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c'mon, don't you know your DH actually has to work at a job while you drink coffee all day? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.08, 05:40 AM Flag
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and UB [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.08, 05:41 AM Flag
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He's still a PARENT - when he's home he can change a diaper. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.08, 06:00 AM Flag
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If he's rushing out the door for work and your not going anywhere than you need to change the damn diaper. Its another story in the evening. I am a SAHM and would never ask this of DH in the morning. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.08, 06:06 AM Flag
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but that didn't seem to be op's sit'n; I agree and my dh is out the door before anyone wakes - but still, it's OFF HOURS and that's when BOTH parents should parent imho [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.08, 06:07 AM Flag
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Why couldnt you change dc? What were you doing? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.08, 05:42 AM Flag
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with older one trying to get her brush and how about me getting dressed not in a rush? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.08, 05:43 AM Flag
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What were you getting dressed for? I'm a SAHM and sitting here in my pjs. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.08, 05:44 AM Flag
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I'm sorry, I'm a SAHM and I just cant sympathise with you. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.08, 05:45 AM Flag
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I"m a sahm and sympathize. I sometimes ask my dh when the last time was that he changed a diaper and he won't be able to recall exactly. It isn't unreasonable for him to change a diaper or help out a little if he has the time. Should he be late to work to do it? No, but it doesn't sound like that's the issue. Wohm change diapers before they leave in the a.m. I am pretty sure. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.08, 05:47 AM Flag
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I'm a SAHM and don't have a sitter to relieve at all so suck it up and consider yourself lucky [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.08, 05:58 AM Flag
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bitter huh? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.08, 06:01 AM Flag
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i begged him to this am and he finally took sympathy, but i honestly think only b/c we had great sex last night and now I'm sore. weird, i know, but he never helps any other time, just sits and reads the paper. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.08, 06:02 AM Flag
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wow, 1950s dad. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.08, 06:12 AM Flag
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'fraid so. but, it was great, i'll admit it. maybe i should be 50's mom and w/hold until he starts helping more. can't get much more passive-aggressive than that, huh? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.08, 06:13 AM Flag
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I'm a WOHM and I change diapers in the a.m. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.08, 06:11 AM Flag
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