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05.21.08, 18:19 PM General Topics
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Just took pregnancy test - cannot believe it's positive. One time without protection. This will be #2. I want another but just feel so not ready right yet- financially or otherwise. [ Reply | Watch | Flag ]
General Topics 05.21.08, 06:19 PM Flag
 

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congrats... [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.21.08, 06:21 PM Flag
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thanks but i'm not feeling happy about it. i hope that changes. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.21.08, 06:22 PM Flag
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same thing happened to me -- wasn't happy about it and then lost the baby at 12 weeks -- talk about guilt... [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.21.08, 06:23 PM Flag
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really? i feel badly almost wishing for something like that. it's terrible. had you started to feel happy about it before 12 weeks? did you get pregnant again or was that recent? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.21.08, 06:24 PM Flag
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i kept flipping back and forth -- being ok with it then not wanting the baby at all, then kharma bit me on the a$$ -- had another loss and secondary infertility -- that was not fun. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.21.08, 06:26 PM Flag
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oh, i'm sorry about that. that is definitely rough. i had infertility the first time - it took me a year and a half to get pregnant, with IUI. Which is partly why I'm shocked I got pregnant this time from one time w/o protection. I hope if you are trying again that things do work out for you the way you want. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.21.08, 06:28 PM Flag
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You'll make it work! Look at the bright side, #1 will have a little bro/sis, Congrats! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.21.08, 06:22 PM Flag
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Thank you. I appreciate the kind words. I don't know what I'm looking for here but it is nice to hear something like that. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.21.08, 06:23 PM Flag
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This was me about 5 months ago. I wasn't excited in the least until the 20 wk ultrasound. Feel much better now. Congratulations! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.21.08, 06:27 PM Flag
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Really? I'm glad to hear that. I'm just very nervous about having 2 -- I feel like I finally got 1 under control and have been enjoying it and now things are getting shaken up again. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.21.08, 06:29 PM Flag
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I saw the age difference below - I don't think it will be too bad at all. Mine are about that far apart and the older one is actually helpful. Now this one I'm having will only be 18 mos younger and I'm freaking! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.21.08, 06:34 PM Flag
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You are making me feel a lot better--thank you. My dd actually does like dolls and babies so hopefully she will be helpful. I just feel like it is going to be such a balancing act (I work fulltime too) that I am not ready to take on. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.21.08, 06:36 PM Flag
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How old is your dc? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.21.08, 06:29 PM Flag
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Will be 3 in August. So they'll be 3 1/2 yrs apart. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.21.08, 06:31 PM Flag
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that's a great age difference. I thought your 1st was under 1 year. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.21.08, 06:32 PM Flag
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yep, that was me...10mos pp, hadn't even had a period yet...but pg i was! it's two years later now, and we are totally fine, and i of course could not even begin to imagine life without #2...gl and congrats!! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.21.08, 06:30 PM Flag
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this was me. Had a ds, fell madly in love with him and the rest is history. It isn't always easy, but it is so worth it [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.21.08, 06:30 PM Flag
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