UrbanBaby

05.21.08, 16:56 PM General Topics
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i wish dh would come out of his damn office and put the kids to bed. i'm done. i barely made it through dinner w/o crying, and he's avoiding real life. i'm the only one who does anything w/the kids, and ds, who has autism, has NOT been happy lately. dd had a breakdown before dinner b/c I refused to make her pasta. Neither of them ate. No bath. it may be selfish, but i just don't want to do bedtime. and i already warned everyone, if dd whines one more time, I'm getting my car keys and leaving the house. [ Reply | Watch | Flag ]
General Topics 05.21.08, 04:56 PM Flag

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honey I am sending you hugs. Is he working or playing video games? [ Reply | More

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General Topics 05.21.08, 04:57 PM Flag

who knows? lord knows he doesn't have any clients, i don't know wtf he does in there all day. last night he was stupid enough to turn the speakers up, and i know it was youtube. [ Reply | More

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General Topics 05.21.08, 04:58 PM Flag

^^^thanks for the hugs [ Reply | More

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General Topics 05.21.08, 04:58 PM Flag

I'll send you some hugs too. I'm sure you do a wonderful job with the kids and you deserve a break too. [ Reply | More

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General Topics 05.21.08, 04:59 PM Flag

thanks. house is a f*cking mess and laundry has been clean and unfolded since Sunday. i'm finding it very hard to care right now. [ Reply | More

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General Topics 05.21.08, 05:01 PM Flag

bang on his door, tell him to come out and deal, that you're done for the day and going to bed [ Reply | More

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General Topics 05.21.08, 04:57 PM Flag

i should...i should just take the laptop up there. and i know he's gonna want sex tonight - he thinks it's a cure-all. [ Reply | More

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General Topics 05.21.08, 04:59 PM Flag

I would tell him I am leaving for the evening and the kids need to be put to bed. Seriously, why dont you? [ Reply | More

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General Topics 05.21.08, 05:01 PM Flag

only thing that's keeping me from doing it is that I'm not supposed to drive when I'm at all tired, and I'm over emotional to boot. it's a bad combination for me - I have epilepsy, even though totally controlled by meds, i don't like to take the chance unless I have to. [ Reply | More

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General Topics 05.21.08, 05:03 PM Flag

then take awalk [ Reply | More

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General Topics 05.21.08, 05:05 PM Flag

i should. it's about to rain here, though. shit - which means i have to go cover up the grill. see you later. thanks everyone [ Reply | More

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General Topics 05.21.08, 05:06 PM Flag