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05.21.08, 16:04 PM General Topics
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I had my 20 week ultrasound last week and I told my dr that I don't want to know what I'm having. Well, he sort of slipped and said that "he looks great." I didn't confirm it because I thought I might've mis-heard him and I didn't want to confirm it anyway. He also said that it's "definitive" that my baby's sex is confirmed. To use that word, it seems to even more confirm that it's a boy. Now I kind of want to know to be 100% sure since I feel 90% sure of what I heard. Wwyd? [ Reply | Watch | Flag ]
General Topics 05.21.08, 04:04 PM Flag
 

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Switch OBs. What a thoughtless ass. But for whatever it's worth, a friend of mine had the sono tech refer to her baby as "she," and then it was a boy. So, you never know, sometimes people just use a pronoun and it doesn't mean anything. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.21.08, 04:07 PM Flag
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My sono used both pronouns - we had a ds, but didn't know until birth [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.21.08, 04:10 PM Flag
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I don't get people like you. If you don't want to know, why spend the time thinking over the details like this? Geez. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.21.08, 04:14 PM Flag
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I would find out if I were you. I had a similar experience and then convinced myself even though I told myself it wasn't for sure. I ended up being shocked that db was a dd not a ds like I thought! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.21.08, 04:16 PM Flag
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that's what i'm worried about! that i would think for the next months that we're having a boy and it turns out to be a girl. i'd be happy either way, but i don't want to be shocked. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.21.08, 04:17 PM Flag
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We didn't want to know the gender, and our sono tech used the word "he" to refer to our dc. We didn't confirm, since we hadn't wanted to know. She was a girl. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.21.08, 04:18 PM Flag
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op, wow, ok. i shouldn't confirm then. this is even harder than before sort of knowing! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.21.08, 04:19 PM Flag
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