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05.21.08, 14:16 PM General Topics
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do you stay together for the kids? [ Reply | Watch | Flag ]
General Topics 05.21.08, 02:16 PM Flag
 

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yes [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.21.08, 02:18 PM Flag
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even if you are unhappy most of the time? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.21.08, 02:19 PM Flag
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only if you can provide a loving supportive home. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.21.08, 02:19 PM Flag
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DH travels most of the time so it wont really make a difference, but finacially it would be hard. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.21.08, 02:20 PM Flag
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DH doesnt travel but leaves early, comes home late and in general is always busy with other things so I feel the same way. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.21.08, 02:24 PM Flag
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It's kind of the cost of being successful that no one tells you about. They simply don't have time to be your boyfriend, etc. anymore, and the marriage suffers. The 2nd wife is usually found through work, and they understand going in that they're not going to get much time, and they're not used to it, either. As long as they're provided for, they keep quiet. It's unfair but it is what it is. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.21.19, 11:49 PM Flag
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i am right now [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.21.08, 02:24 PM Flag
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how do you cope in an empty relationship [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.21.08, 02:26 PM Flag
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np here: it's tough. often consider what it would be like to have an affair... keep telling myself that it's better for kids for us to stay together. we never talk about it of course. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.21.08, 02:34 PM Flag
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I think about it too, but I dont think I would go through with it, the guilt would kill me. Sometimes I think of doing it just to wake him up, I think he has gotten too comfortable in this marriage and has slacked immensely. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.21.08, 02:35 PM Flag
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no, getting a divorce [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.21.08, 02:35 PM Flag
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how did you finally decide? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.21.08, 02:36 PM Flag
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I got therapy and realized that dh is too screwed up and it will be better for me and db (20 months). therapy definitely helped put it all in perspective - I was in denial. good luck!!!! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.21.08, 02:41 PM Flag
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thanks, i have often thought about going to therapy. I think its time. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.21.08, 02:44 PM Flag
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