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05.14.07, 19:29 PM Toddler
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Any Donor Egg moms on? I need some advice [ Reply | Watch | Flag ]
Toddler 05.14.07, 07:29 PM Flag
 

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no, but I want to donate. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.14.07, 07:32 PM Flag
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i am in the process of choosing an egg donor..hardest thing i have EVER done. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.14.07, 07:35 PM Flag
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really? dont put too much into this [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.14.07, 07:35 PM Flag
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but choosing my future child's dna is so difficult..you didn't think so? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.14.07, 07:38 PM Flag
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yes - but what are you looking for??? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.14.07, 07:38 PM Flag
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i have to ask why adoption isnt an option rather than this? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.14.07, 07:39 PM Flag
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Adoption costs the same or more than donor egg (MUCH MUCH more if you do donor egg in Europe--instead of paying $30k+ for adoption you can do donor-egg IVF in the Czech Republic or Spain for $6k-$8k), also donor-egg works much faster. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.17.13, 06:35 PM Flag
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well, i feel strongly about very good mental health, no history of addicition in the family, longeveity and height. the group i'm using allows you to see current photos of the donors so we are getting too caught up in what they look like.. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.14.07, 07:40 PM Flag
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i can understand that - but you have to also understand that anyone can have mental health issues - cancer - eye glasses etc etc - choosing an egg doner doesnt mean a perfect baby [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.14.07, 07:43 PM Flag
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i know. it's just overwhelming when you feel that you have a CHOICE as opposed to my egg and dh's sperm. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.14.07, 07:43 PM Flag
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why dont you just adopt - isnt that easier? and less expensive? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.14.07, 07:45 PM Flag
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god no. the wait for a domestic, white newborn is FOREVER. spence chapin not even taking new applicants. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.14.07, 07:47 PM Flag
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no kidding - i guess its how much you actually put into it - i adopted three domestic white newborns - one took 8 mths one took 2 yrs and last took 4 mths - you need a good attorney honey [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.14.07, 07:49 PM Flag
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are you the mom in upstate ny? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.14.07, 07:50 PM Flag
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yup [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.14.07, 07:50 PM Flag
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while i'm happy for you, truly, your story seems to be an unusual one. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.14.07, 07:51 PM Flag
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thanks- it is unusual - i am a worker -= i wil tell you this - i worked on this at least 40-50 hrs a week - its a full time job - not for the everyone [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.14.07, 07:52 PM Flag
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yes. dh and i just don't have it in us. we are doing the home study and paperwork for adoption while we pursue our gestational suurogacy..if a baby comes up for us first..great. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.14.07, 07:54 PM Flag
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good luck - what is right for one isnt right for another - i hope you get your baby!!!!! good luck [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.14.07, 07:56 PM Flag
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many thx. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.14.07, 07:57 PM Flag
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xoxoxoxox [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.14.07, 07:57 PM Flag
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I used two different groups. One let you look at photos and the other didn't. We ended up using the one without the photos. We felt it was better not to look at everyone's face like it could be the one. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.14.07, 07:54 PM Flag
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