UrbanBaby

09.11.19, 00:42 AM General Topics
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Spoiler alert: vent. There's a never ending list of domestic shit to do. Since my name isn't on title of this house I have less incentive to do said shit. Also I modify my behaviour anytime I'm asked - like reducing how much recycling and trash I make - after the title owner educated me on plastic island and you can imagine the rest of that interlude. There is a particular chore that the title owner claimed (taking the trash and recycling to the street, which is a 20 minute walk), and has stopped me from doing, but guess what? It's been since June (the last time I did it), that chore has reached a crisis level, and now I am being asked? told? to do it. WWYD? (A) STFU and do it. Enabling codependency. Slippery slope to continued miscommunication, poor boundaries, etc. Tell myself I like, no need, the physical exercise. (B) Play dumb. Don't do it. Pretend I'm a man and I'm oblivious and it just slipped my mind/awareness. [ Reply | Watch | Flag ]
General Topics 09.11.19, 12:42 AM Flag

Dear UrbanBaby community,

Thank you so much for being a valued member of the UrbanBaby community. We wanted to inform you that we are shutting down the site on July 6th. We are grateful for your participation and support that has helped make UrbanBaby such an important resource to parents for many years.

If you have any questions or concerns, you can email us at urbanbaby-support@cbsinteractive.com.

Thanks so much,

UrbanBaby Support

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General Topics 09.11.19, 12:50 AM Flag

Are you drunk? [ Reply | More

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General Topics 09.11.19, 12:56 AM Flag

OP not yet [ Reply | More

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General Topics 09.11.19, 01:45 AM Flag

Yes, exactly. [ Reply | More

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General Topics 09.11.19, 01:09 AM Flag

Definitely B. Sounds like a messed up relationship. [ Reply | More

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General Topics 09.11.19, 02:28 AM Flag

OP thank you! [ Reply | More

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General Topics 09.11.19, 05:26 AM Flag

So you say you hate your in-laws but live in their hose anyway for the financial benefits... [ Reply | More

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General Topics 09.11.19, 08:24 AM Flag

OP no I didn't say that, but if you want to hijack: plenty of UBers 'hate' their jobs (or their attitude that you construe here as hate is on par) and yet "for the financial benefits..." [ Reply | More

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General Topics 09.11.19, 05:57 PM Flag

Is Title Owner your DH, your parent or your in-law? [ Reply | More

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General Topics 09.11.19, 02:17 PM Flag