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09.08.19, 18:52 PM General Topics
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I am over ex dh and know that we weren't good together. I do my best to co-parent and be cordial with him for sake of dc's. However, whenever his gf (who he cheated on me with) calls him when he is in my home picking up dc's, I get hateful feelings towards them both. Normal to know I am better off but still get angry when I feel like a reminder of something that hurt me deeply is rubbed in my face? [ Reply | Watch | Flag ]
General Topics 09.08.19, 06:52 PM Flag
 

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You can be cordial and still not let him in your house and minimize your interactions with while. You never have to make a declaration about it either. Just start enforcing your own boundaries. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.08.19, 07:16 PM Flag
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If it makes you feel better, she sounds insecure to call him while she knows he's picking up his kids and checking in with you. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.08.19, 07:31 PM Flag
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This. I think completely normal to feel this way. She serves as a reminder but maybe getting these feelings mean that you’re still mourning the relationship. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.08.19, 07:56 PM Flag
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+1 [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.08.19, 08:29 PM Flag
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+100 [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.08.19, 10:32 PM Flag
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Well, it makes sense that she would be insecure. She already knows he's a cheater; it's just a matter of time. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.08.19, 08:39 PM Flag
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totally agree. OP, you are doing 100X better that soon-to-be-cheated-on new GF [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.08.19, 10:12 PM Flag
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ha, very normal - remember though it was your ex that broke the vows - my ex came from a very wealthy family - my kids send me photos from exotic and high end vacations and while I am happy for them and would never give my ex the satisfaction of knowing I am envious....I am envious [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.08.19, 07:58 PM Flag
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Of course but ow is still a pos. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.08.19, 08:56 PM Flag
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OW is a scrap digger [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.08.19, 09:10 PM Flag
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Next time she calls , yell out I LOVE YOU STEVE (or whatever his name is). Bitch will stop calling [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.08.19, 09:10 PM Flag
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