UrbanBaby

07.27.08, 15:15 PM New York City
20 replies

bummed. bf of 5 mo ended things with me a week after he told me he wants to have kids and a future with me. he told me in a year from now he would like to see us planning our future. then he tells me his schedule for the next 2 months is crazy busy and he will be traveling so much that he can't picture balancing his work schedule with a serious relationship. obviously this is BS as it doesn't matter how busy you are, if you love someone you make it work. anyway, its been 6 days and not a word from him. can't believe how suddenly he turned. so bizarre. like a different person over night. [ Reply | Watch | Flag ]
New York City 07.27.08, 03:15 PM Flag

Dear UrbanBaby community,

Thank you so much for being a valued member of the UrbanBaby community. We wanted to inform you that we are shutting down the site on July 6th. We are grateful for your participation and support that has helped make UrbanBaby such an important resource to parents for many years.

If you have any questions or concerns, you can email us at urbanbaby-support@cbsinteractive.com.

Thanks so much,

UrbanBaby Support

you post this over and over...? [ Reply | More

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General Topics 07.27.08, 03:17 PM Flag

yea, trying to get it out of my system. just ignore it [ Reply | More

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General Topics 07.27.08, 03:18 PM Flag

np: Count this one as a blessing in disguise. [ Reply | More

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General Topics 07.27.08, 04:08 PM Flag

i am trying. "a mans rejection is g-ds protection" :) [ Reply | More

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General Topics 07.27.08, 04:36 PM Flag

Hë's JUST NOT THAT INTO YOU, sounds like a nice guy-doesn't want to hurt your feelings. I get the feeling you are a bit psycho... [ Reply | More

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General Topics 07.27.08, 07:03 PM Flag

why would you write that to this woman? I have been following her story and it is a woman who is hurt by a break-up. Even if you can't be sympathetic, why call her psycho. And why write that "he's just not that into you" stuff? you don't even know the in's and out's of their relationship. none of us do. I just don't understand why people try to be so hurtful to those on here who are hurting.... [ Reply | More

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General Topics 07.27.08, 07:20 PM Flag

I can't stand to see this post over and over again. What can we say? [ Reply | More

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General Topics 07.27.08, 03:58 PM Flag

Say thank you and don't let him back in your life. [ Reply | More

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General Topics 07.27.08, 03:25 PM Flag

he is definately not welcome back in my life. just a little shocked still [ Reply | More

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General Topics 07.27.08, 03:32 PM Flag

Ah, I would stake my life savings on you taking him back if he whistles in your direction. Sorry. [ Reply | More

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General Topics 07.27.08, 03:58 PM Flag

i promise you. it is the second time he has done it. i just don't understand why so i am looking for answers because its hard not to sting, but there is no way he is coming back [ Reply | More

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General Topics 07.27.08, 04:09 PM Flag

no offense. but from the number of times you've posted it sounds like you are really crushed about this. do you think you need a therapist? [ Reply | More

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General Topics 07.27.08, 04:44 PM Flag

just want to vent and looking for answers. i am not crushed about the loss of the relationship the way i could have been, just more confused and looking for opinions because i don't quite understand it [ Reply | More

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General Topics 07.27.08, 04:57 PM Flag

he sucks, nothing else to understand really [ Reply | More

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General Topics 07.27.08, 05:01 PM Flag

thanks :) [ Reply | More

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General Topics 07.27.08, 05:02 PM Flag

i thought it was cold feet and that you should try to contact him again in a couple of weeks to see if he wants to meet and talk about things. but i was voted down. [ Reply | More

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General Topics 07.27.08, 05:05 PM Flag

thanks. i would have thought it was cold feet had he not been so totally shut down with no emotion during the break up. it was as though he was cancelling cable service :) i remember you, and thanks [ Reply | More

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General Topics 07.27.08, 05:25 PM Flag

what do you have to lose? [ Reply | More

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General Topics 07.27.08, 05:30 PM Flag

i read somewhere it takes a man at least 8 weeks to miss you. if he doesn't come back after that time, forget em [ Reply | More

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General Topics 07.27.08, 05:44 PM Flag

sounds good! [ Reply | More

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General Topics 07.27.08, 06:51 PM Flag