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07.24.08, 07:37 AM General Topics
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DH here. The wife and kids are away for the week and I'm feeling the need to hook up with someone. I love my wife but we haven't had much of a sex life since the birth of our second child 6 months ago. How do you handle something like that? I'm just looking for sex and not a relationship. Between work, home, and kids I have my hands full already. I just need some relief. Tired of j#$king off after my wife goes to bed early. Thanks for listening. [ Reply | Watch | Flag ]
General Topics 07.24.08, 07:37 AM Flag
 

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L.O.S.E.R. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.24.08, 07:38 AM Flag
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fake [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.24.08, 07:39 AM Flag
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ITA [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.24.08, 07:39 AM Flag
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I'm actually very real. Isn't this a problem that other people have? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.24.08, 07:40 AM Flag
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I know it's tempting. But don't do it. It's not worth it. 6 mos post baby is not a lot of time. Focus on getting your sex life back on track when she comes back and in the meantime, jerk off, rent some porn, and go to a strip club if you have to - but don't bother with the hook up. Trust me, it's not worth it. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.24.08, 07:40 AM Flag
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Thanks for your non judgmental response. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.24.08, 07:42 AM Flag
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hang in there. also, my advice: don't go out and drink as a 'single guy' - you'll screw up your better judgement. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.24.08, 07:44 AM Flag
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Thanks for your advice. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.24.08, 07:49 AM Flag
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go away [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.24.08, 07:40 AM Flag
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If this isn't fake, you should really look at what kind of person you are. Your wife, who you claim to love, just had a baby six months ago, and you're crying over not having much sex? This is about character and vows. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.24.08, 07:43 AM Flag
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DH???? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.24.08, 07:43 AM Flag
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Actually I didn't really want to have a second child. I thought life in NYC was ok with one child. Also, I'm six years older than my wife and in mid 40's. I wasn't really looking for a larger family. My wife said if we didn't get pregnant then she would leave me and have a kid with someone else. She had already left me once before we had our first daughter so I could believe she would do it again. That being said, I love our second daughter and know she is precious. I just want to give you some perspective as to our relationship before our second child is born. Now my wife wants to stay home, but we can't afford it and still live in the city. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.24.08, 07:55 AM Flag
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Sounds like you have bigger problems to deal with than a poor sex life. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.24.08, 07:57 AM Flag
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I think you're probably correct. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.24.08, 08:00 AM Flag
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My dh didn't want a second child and we didn't have one. Now I feel like it is too late and I am sorry. SOmetimes I think he is sorry as well. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.24.08, 08:02 AM Flag
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How you handle it is by growing up and realizing that you can't always have everything you want. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.24.08, 07:44 AM Flag
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ndh: I think OP is an ass but to be fair, his issue is not that he doesn't "always have everything he wants." It is that he never has the one thing he wants. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.24.08, 07:58 AM Flag
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You need to think about your situation differently. There's nothing you can do now about that second child now that it is here. Baby is here to stay, so think about how you can make DW feel honored to have brought your second into the world. Also, you'll have unfaithful impulses from time to time, enjoy the notion for the moment it comes, but don't give in. You'll regret it for the rest of your life. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.24.08, 08:15 AM Flag
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