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07.23.08, 16:44 PM General Topics
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My best friend just admitted to having an affair with another friend's dh. I am so disgusted. Feel caught in the middle and wish she didn't tell me. WWYD? [ Reply | Watch | Flag ]
General Topics 07.23.08, 04:44 PM Flag

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Hold your judgement. You have no idea what the real deal is. [ Reply | More

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General Topics 07.23.08, 04:45 PM Flag

What do you mean hold your judgement. She's effing her friends husband. What possible excuse is their for that? [ Reply | More

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General Topics 07.23.08, 04:46 PM Flag

Her friend is a frigid b!tch? [ Reply | More

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General Topics 07.23.08, 04:48 PM Flag

np: it's amazing to me that people think there is any justification for cheating on a spouse. separate if you need to sleep with someone else. is it justified to steal from a store b/c their prices are too high? [ Reply | More

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General Topics 07.23.08, 04:54 PM Flag

We're not talking about retail products, we're talking about PEOPLE. The fact that you can't tell the difference is even more disturbing than the alleged cheating. [ Reply | More

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General Topics 07.23.08, 04:55 PM Flag

right - we ARE talking about people. and it is much more despicable to break the trust of your spouse than to steal from a retail outlet. no need to be disturbed by MY moral compass. it's right where it should be. [ Reply | More

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General Topics 07.23.08, 04:57 PM Flag

nnp: look, you can't control your feelings but you can ALWAYS control your actions if you choose. her friend could be as frigid as they come and that doesn't mean her dh had the right to cheat on her. and her friend sucks for being willing to sleep with the dh. just b/c you're cheating doesn't make it right for others to do it. [ Reply | More

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General Topics 07.23.08, 05:00 PM Flag

They're both consenting adults. They have the "right" to do whatever they damn well please. [ Reply | More

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General Topics 07.23.08, 05:02 PM Flag

nnnp. Spoken like someone who has btdt. [ Reply | More

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General Topics 07.23.08, 05:30 PM Flag

uh, so that justifies sleeping with friend's husband? there is no context needed. this friend is the awful one...i would tell friend she hold tell friend. what are she (mistress( and husband planning to do...continue affair? end it? more details needed to offer opinion... [ Reply | More

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General Topics 07.23.08, 04:57 PM Flag

AVOID her like the plague. DO NOT call her. DO NOT hang out with her. You have to really be firm about this. You need to protect your family and her issues seem like they might get in the way of that, right? [ Reply | More

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General Topics 07.23.08, 05:38 PM Flag

you might need a little distance [ Reply | More

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General Topics 07.23.08, 04:47 PM Flag

i would get away from all parties fast. [ Reply | More

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General Topics 07.23.08, 04:58 PM Flag

Tell her you don't want her to tell you anything else about it especially if it is ongoing. I would feel the need to avoid the other friend as I couldn't face her. [ Reply | More

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General Topics 07.23.08, 05:31 PM Flag

yuck. her business, should not have told you. what a crappy situ. [ Reply | More

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General Topics 07.23.08, 05:34 PM Flag

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General Topics 07.23.08, 05:35 PM Flag