UrbanBaby

07.23.08, 14:26 PM General Topics
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my toxic mom doesn't call me. should i call her? she blew off my wedding, ignores DB, puts me down (usually through backhanded, sneaky ways) but i feel i'm being toxic also if i don't have contact with her. WWYD? [ Reply | Watch | Flag ]
General Topics 07.23.08, 02:26 PM Flag

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No you are not being toxic, you are being HEALTHY. If she calls you be nice, otherwise you are better of without all that negative nonsense in your life. [ Reply | More

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General Topics 07.23.08, 02:28 PM Flag

op- but zero contact with my family seems so pathetic. i feel immature for allowing this. like i should rise above my mom (and sister -who grew up to be just like my mom). feel i should learn how to handle them - at a distance but some contact. but they make me sick half the time. they insulted DB at his 1 yr old BDay party last time i saw them 3 months ago. [ Reply | More

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General Topics 07.23.08, 02:31 PM Flag

op- my mom always told my sister that my sister had to try harder to be as good as i was. took my sister for major facial plastic surgery at 13 b/c i was considered prettier... so my sister has a very big jealous ax to grind with me that she won't bury. and both mom and sis have zero social contacts in their lives. don't know what to do with them. [ Reply | More

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General Topics 07.23.08, 02:33 PM Flag

op- they won't even see DB ever - saying they're too busy when neither works. sister doesn't have kids or a job. it's only a 45 min drive. so that hurts me. if i go to them, they often stand me up. [ Reply | More

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General Topics 07.23.08, 02:34 PM Flag

*shameless Bump* [ Reply | More

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General Topics 07.23.08, 02:44 PM Flag