UrbanBaby

07.23.08, 12:16 PM New York City
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sorry to post about this again, but bf of 6 mo ended it yesterday and i am still in shock. he told me his schedule for the next 2 months(non-stop work travel) is too busy to balance with a serious relationship. this is a sharp contrast to s week before when he told me he wanted to marry me and have kids with me, etc. obviously i know the busy work schedule even if true is a BS reason to end a relationship, and he is just not that into me, but i feel terrible about it. i doubt i will ever hear from him again and the whole thing is so weird. came out of nowhere. things were going great and we seemed to be getting closer and closer. [ Reply | Watch | Flag ]
New York City 07.23.08, 12:16 PM Flag

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Sorry, that sucks [ Reply | More

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General Topics 07.23.08, 12:16 PM Flag

ita [ Reply | More

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General Topics 07.23.08, 12:17 PM Flag

thanks :) [ Reply | More

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General Topics 07.23.08, 12:21 PM Flag

is it possible he's getting cold feet as opposed to changing his mind? [ Reply | More

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General Topics 07.23.08, 12:22 PM Flag

he definately could be. i can't imagine he would change his mind overnight, which is what it seemed like [ Reply | More

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General Topics 07.23.08, 12:30 PM Flag

that's why i'd think he just scared himself. i'd wait a couple of weeks and then call him and just ask if he wants to reconsider the relationship or get together to talk about it. [ Reply | More

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General Topics 07.23.08, 12:32 PM Flag

np: NO! DO NOT DO THAT [ Reply | More

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General Topics 07.23.08, 02:04 PM Flag

i wouldn't! don't worry [ Reply | More

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General Topics 07.23.08, 02:17 PM Flag

why not? [ Reply | More

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General Topics 07.23.08, 02:21 PM Flag

because its the second time he dumped me. i can't be a doormat [ Reply | More

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General Topics 07.23.08, 02:31 PM Flag

Guys always do that crap when things get too serious. Mark my words 2 weeks max he will be calling and wanting you back. [ Reply | More

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General Topics 07.23.08, 12:24 PM Flag

i hope so because i won't feel like everything he said thus far was so phony. BUT this is the second time he has done this (first time was cold feet it seemed), so i told him it won't happen a third and there is NO CHANCE we will ever get back together again as this is the second time he has done this. so this time, i really think he is done [ Reply | More

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General Topics 07.23.08, 12:31 PM Flag

Oh I am sorry, it isn't worth the effort then. Forget him and move on if you get back with him again you will regret it trust me 1st marriage was like that. [ Reply | More

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General Topics 07.23.08, 12:33 PM Flag

i know. i am going to be strong this time!! [ Reply | More

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General Topics 07.23.08, 12:36 PM Flag

His ex-girlfriend, who dumped him, wants him back. [ Reply | More

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General Topics 07.23.08, 12:55 PM Flag

why would you even write that. [ Reply | More

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General Topics 07.23.08, 12:57 PM Flag

did he say this before you slept with him and then bailed after you did? [ Reply | More

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General Topics 07.23.08, 02:03 PM Flag

no, we dated for 6 months. he said it recently, like a week before he ended it [ Reply | More

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General Topics 07.23.08, 02:17 PM Flag

married [ Reply | More