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07.22.08, 11:29 AM Preschool/Kids
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I made a decision not to take a friendship into affair territority. Now he (friend) has stopped talking to me, and I feel sad. I know I made the right choice but I am feeling sort of rejected and depressed about it. Help. [ Reply | Watch | Flag ]
Preschool/Kids 07.22.08, 11:29 AM Flag
 

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Well now you know what he was really after in the first place. Good riddance. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 11:32 AM Flag
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give it time. you will replace him with other more appropriate friends and never regret having passed up the affair. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 11:32 AM Flag
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I hope so. The fact is, we both are married with young children. He could see me when traveling on business, and that seemed like a raw deal - to me, to our kids, to our spouses - I guess at the heart of it this is just not who I am. I have problems in my marriage, for sure, but I love my DH. Maybe it will never be passionate sparks like with proposed affair guy, but, it is reliable and he is a very loving father to our DC. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 11:33 AM Flag
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passionate sparks fade. Your dh sounds like a good man. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 11:38 AM Flag
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He is. A great man. It hit me when we went on a family vacation ... I think I miss getting more attention from him, but would not have it any other way (i.e., priority is attention to our DC). [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 11:40 AM Flag
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And they esp. fade if the person you are sparking with turns out to be a huge jerk! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 11:40 AM Flag
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good choice [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 11:33 AM Flag
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good for you, says something about your friendship. like any breakup it takes time [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 11:33 AM Flag
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why did he think it was going there to begin with? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 11:34 AM Flag
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We both admitted being very attracted to each other. The difference was I had no intention of acting on it. He wanted to act on it and I twice had to tell him that could not be. I said maybe if we had met in different circumstances, but now would not be the time. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 11:35 AM Flag
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And I just get angrier and angrier about it - at him and at me - can't stand being led on, then dumped, etc. - so when it came time to "act" I was just too annoyed as well. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 11:37 AM Flag
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