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07.22.08, 07:58 AM New York City
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whats the going rate for a wedding gift these days. Its for a first cousin. Money or gift? How much $$? [ Reply | Watch | Flag ]
New York City 07.22.08, 07:58 AM Flag
 

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I always thought you gave what you could afford. A wedding invitation isn't a ticket to be purchased. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 08:00 AM Flag
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gift, and whatever you can afford. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 08:02 AM Flag
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If you really want an idea on how much $ to give, I usually go by how much it cost to pay for my meal. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 08:04 AM Flag
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how would she know this? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 08:05 AM Flag
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you can guess based on where/when the wedding is. My wedding at the Yale Club was $160/pp [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 08:06 AM Flag
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whatever you can afford. where is the wedding being held? is there a predominant ethnicity? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 08:05 AM Flag
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Big close Jewish family - being held at an abigail kirsch place on a saturday night [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 08:14 AM Flag
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I would give a gift around $200 if you can afford it [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 08:14 AM Flag
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np-We gave dh's cousin $500, but they invited our 2 dc. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 08:19 AM Flag
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everyone is different. If a very close cousin or friend and you can afford, give more [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 08:23 AM Flag
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not familiar with Jewish customs...but my Southern WASP family gave gifts and would have thought money was crass. Everyone from dh's Polish Catholic family from Ohio gave money. I would give what you can afford, between $100 and $200. But we had distant relatives who were elderly and probably on a fixed income give as little as $10...it's the thought that counts [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 08:22 AM Flag
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