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07.21.08, 17:30 PM General Topics
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My dh and I have had sex a total of 2 times since our 17mo was born. How do I tell him I'm pregnant? And YES it is his. [ Reply | Watch | Flag ]
General Topics 07.21.08, 05:30 PM Flag

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I guess his "boys" are strong swimmers! [ Reply | More

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General Topics 07.21.08, 05:33 PM Flag

Actually it's just the opposite. He had less than 1% morphology when we were struggling to have our first. [ Reply | More

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General Topics 07.21.08, 05:38 PM Flag

I guess you want to tell him sooner than later. Is he not interested in having more children? If not than tell him and give him time to adjust without pushing all the baby stuff, and picking a name. Help him by giving him space. For men it is hard to deal with. [ Reply | More

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General Topics 07.21.08, 05:35 PM Flag

He agreed to try for another but wanted to wait another few months sowe could get a better handle on our debt. [ Reply | More

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General Topics 07.21.08, 05:50 PM Flag

well, i had the same situation, i think i told my friend first b/c i was so afraid of what his reaction would be. it only took once with both of ours too! He did the deed, so he is aware that it could have happened. I think you will be fine...just be honest that you are afraid of what he is going to say/feel. plus, debt never goes away..never a financially sound time to have a child. [ Reply | More

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General Topics 07.21.08, 05:53 PM Flag

I don't believe its his [ Reply | More

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General Topics 07.21.08, 05:45 PM Flag

Why not? [ Reply | More

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General Topics 07.21.08, 05:48 PM Flag

When did you have sex [ Reply | More

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General Topics 07.21.08, 05:51 PM Flag

A couple of times last month. [ Reply | More

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General Topics 07.21.08, 05:55 PM Flag

what happened the other 16 months? [ Reply | More

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General Topics 07.21.08, 05:57 PM Flag

Nothing we were both pretty exhausted all the time. We've finally decided to schedule it but even that is pretty difficult. [ Reply | More

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General Topics 07.21.08, 06:05 PM Flag

It only takes once! Trust me, with our first, it only took once :0) [ Reply | More

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General Topics 07.21.08, 05:50 PM Flag

have you been menstruating regularly. b/c if you are late you can just point out that you're late and then test and be surprised with him. [ Reply | More

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General Topics 07.21.08, 05:51 PM Flag

No only just had 1 period since ds was born. That was in May. Also I'm still breastfeeding. [ Reply | More

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General Topics 07.21.08, 05:57 PM Flag

you are me-i am now 36 weeks pg (after having gone through fertility trtmt. for #1) [ Reply | More

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General Topics 07.21.08, 05:53 PM Flag

Congratulations! It took us 7yrs for 1, I have PCOS and dh has sperm issues that seem to have resolved themselves [ Reply | More

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General Topics 07.21.08, 06:00 PM Flag