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07.21.08, 17:09 PM General Topics
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Should my friend end a relationship with this guy? They met through EHarmony.com about six months ago. She just found out that his "girlfriend" when she met him- who he claims he left for her- was the manager and worked at a "massage parlor" in a strip mall in NJ. He met the ex when she gave him a hand job post massage and he started "dating" her. He also loaned her 40K to buy a house in China and gave her a car. He only broke things off with her when he started getting serious abt my friend. Also, when he and my friend were first planning to have sex she asked him to get tested for all stds and he did but the results weren't accurate bec he had slept with the prostitute/madam a few weeks earlier. He presented the results to my friend as "clean" and they have been having unprotected sex ever since. Now she is insisting he be retested and he is complying. He is remorseful abt having kept all of this from her- said he did so bec he was afraid he would lose her. What would you advise your friend in this situation? I will post my opinion after I hear from you all bec I don't want to bias your responses. Thanks so much! [ Reply | Watch | Flag ]
General Topics 07.21.08, 05:09 PM Flag
 

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General Topics 07.21.08, 05:14 PM Flag
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I guess I picture those place in Chinatown or the Lower East side, not in a Bayonne Strip Mall! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.21.08, 05:18 PM Flag
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Happy Endings exist EVERYWHERE. Don't kid yourself. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.21.08, 05:20 PM Flag
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i'm not kidding myself, i just can't picture it! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.21.08, 05:32 PM Flag
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Well, it's there whether you can "picture" it or not. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.21.08, 05:39 PM Flag
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everyone deserves a second chance but geez what a leap of faith. oye [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.21.08, 05:21 PM Flag
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This guy is a real loser, do you really need to ask what you should tell her. You're friend...well she is a moron, obviously she will not listen anyway, after he told her all this stuff she should have run for her life, literally. God,I hope she does not get pregnant. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.21.08, 05:41 PM Flag
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