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07.21.08, 11:29 AM General Topics
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Happily married at age 34... but randomly connected through myspace with a teenage boyfriend never got out of my head. turns out he felt the same way. and now i can't stop doing the what-if. there are all these crazy cosmic coincidences and connections that make me wonder.... yet i am happily married with 2 young children. [ Reply | Watch | Flag ]
General Topics 07.21.08, 11:29 AM Flag
 

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everybody has one of those. but before myspace and facebook, you were less likely to connect with any of them and admit these feelings. it's not like you guys would have said this to each other if you ran into each other in the grocery store. just be happy to know that you guys had something special. it doesn't change your relationship with dh unless you pursue something. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.21.08, 11:32 AM Flag
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op: that's what i was thinking... it was a relief to hear he felt the same way and i didn't need to wonder if the feeling was mutual. i guess it's just the overanalytical me ... thanks. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.21.08, 11:34 AM Flag
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"oh boy. let's stop and think. what if? you'd be married to someone who is on myspace flirting with his teenage girlfriend, that's what. just stop it. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.21.08, 11:32 AM Flag
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np: lol - great point! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.21.08, 11:33 AM Flag
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i get your point. but that's actually not true. he's not married. and not open to extramarital relationship. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.21.08, 11:35 AM Flag
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Fantasy is a wonderful thing. Reality is likely very different. Keep the fun of the fantasy. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.21.08, 11:34 AM Flag
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op: yes, thanks. will keep it in the F category. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.21.08, 11:36 AM Flag
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My teenage BF and I are now connected through one of those sites. It has opened up a terrible can of worms on his end and some of the things the comments he emails me are inappropriate and things his wife, who thinks they are very happy, would not be happy with I am sure. I am deleting my profile this week. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.21.08, 11:37 AM Flag
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instead of deleting him, why don't you just tell him that some of the things he has written are inappropriate and it would be best if you guys stop communicating for awhile. And then remove him as a 'friend'? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.21.08, 11:40 AM Flag
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I don't feel close or engaged enough to have that conversation if you know what I mean. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.21.08, 11:42 AM Flag
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so then just drop him. don't even tell him why, unless he asks. and keep it short and non-dramatic. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.21.08, 11:43 AM Flag
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NP: I keep dreaming about my college boyfriend. Last night I had one & discovered he had really bad taste in decorating. Purple shag. We hooked up, but later (in dream) I found out he was having trysts with others, whose close I found. I checked out the labels to find out what sizes they wore. I was actually thinking about how I might "run into" him near his apt....Also had dream the other night about Jeff Goldbloom. That really surprised me. Not getting any with DH. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.21.08, 12:23 PM Flag
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