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07.20.08, 17:51 PM General Topics
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Could you forgive an extramarital affair? I am trying to for my kids, but I don't know if I am able [ Reply | Watch | Flag ]
General Topics 07.20.08, 05:51 PM Flag
 

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yikes. i don't know. i guess it depends on so many things. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.20.08, 05:52 PM Flag
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How long, with whom, how serious? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.20.08, 05:53 PM Flag
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2.5 yrs. co-worker. supposedly only sex no dating. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.20.08, 05:54 PM Flag
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are you leaning one way or the other? how long has it been since you found out? how old are your kids? are you currently together? do your kids know you are having problems? are you seeing a therapist or other professional? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.20.08, 05:55 PM Flag
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change my mind daily, 4mo all kids under 8. no and yes [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.20.08, 05:59 PM Flag
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I think the changing your mind daily is just part of the process. Def. see a therapist, but it can take months (years) to finally know how to think about it. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.25.08, 07:08 AM Flag
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did he admit to you and it's over or did you find out independently? that would make a huge difference. plus 2.5 years is a very long time for this to be going on. sound more than just an extramarital affair. i'm so sorry you have to go through this. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.25.08, 09:04 AM Flag
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Yes - how you found out would have a big impact on the decisions if it were me. That being said...2.5 years does seem like a little more than something that could be easily forgiven. Is he begging for forgiveness? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.25.08, 09:13 AM Flag
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My mom did, but it was a one-time thing and my father felt horribly guilt. It wasn't ongoing. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.25.08, 07:09 AM Flag
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no. never. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.25.08, 09:08 AM Flag
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My ex was unfaithful. I was able to forgive but unable to forget. For me, the forgiving was the easy part. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.25.08, 09:08 AM Flag
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