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07.19.08, 14:03 PM General Topics
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My dh annoys me about 85% of the time and we have had sex about 3 times in six months. i feel like i want out - but with 2 dc's and grodwing up in a home where my parents probably hated each other but never split - i have a hard time imagining how to even start a split - what the heck do i do? and yes - we have done therapy before and several times. [ Reply | Watch | Flag ]
General Topics 07.19.08, 02:03 PM Flag
 

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are you the one with the job offer? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.19.08, 02:04 PM Flag
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op-yep...the one and only [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.19.08, 02:05 PM Flag
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lol [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.19.08, 02:06 PM Flag
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what annoys you about your dh? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.19.08, 02:05 PM Flag
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op-i know i will come off sounding snotty but..he is just not smart enough for me, energetic enough, i think has too many insecurities that have led to him not being where he should be professionally,he's too uptight, etc etc...and my life with him is just "less then" I feel it could be, should be. i worry - I am at an age where i can still build a new life...but if i wait and am much older - my options will be much fewer...i will be stuck with him. sounds awful right. but the truth is also - we have had such a shaky history..b/c of his issues. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.19.08, 02:09 PM Flag
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doesn't sound awful, sounds honest. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.19.08, 02:10 PM Flag
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op-how do you know when its time to leave? everyone says "you just know" - but I "just know" all the time and yet, for the life of me - have no idea how to start thinking about leaving. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.19.08, 02:11 PM Flag
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Too Good To Leave, Too Bad To Stay is a good book that helped me decide what to do. Asks questions and leaves the hard answers up to you. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.19.08, 02:22 PM Flag
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np: what did you decide? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.19.08, 02:32 PM Flag
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There are lots of reasons why a marriage ends. Mine ended because I couldn't stand to be married to that person for a moment longer. I really thought I would die inside within a few years if I stayed. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.19.08, 02:25 PM Flag
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